Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

[Anonymous]

What did her ex-H do to her? And I don’t mean Eddie. Her IG is so full of posts about narcissists, people doing people wrong, healing, etc.


I like Valerie, she just seems mired in this.

[Anonymous]

Yeah she's been like this for awhile now. She said Tom is a narcissist and would do things like laughing at her weight. She had to pay him a few million dollars after finalizing the divorce too

[Anonymous]

She should have never remarried. Eddie was her true love.

[Anonymous]

Who can blame her for taking another chance to be married? Her first mareiage was so nontraditional that maybe she thought this would he a better fit.

Either way, this sounds so very ugly. I wish her peace moving forward in a healthier way.

[Anonymous]

She does seem to talk a lot about him. I think she has been divorced for about a year.

[Anonymous]

I follow her on Instagram, and she does seem to mention this almost daily. Not the ex-husband by name, but I assume that's who she is referring to.

For anyone who goes through that, is it good to continue to focus on it as he/she works through it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She should have never remarried. Eddie was her true love.

If that was true, they wouldn't have divorced..

[Anonymous]

PTSD-like trauma. It can happen to people that are victims of adultery/cheating spouses who have been gaslighted and emotionally abused for years. It can literally drive some people crazy.

[Anonymous]

This makes me so sad. I've always liked her (doesn't everyone?), even though I never watched One Day at a Time. Despite being a celebrity in her own right and married to one of the world's greatest rock guitarists, she always seemed relatable.

I read her first memoir that detailed her marriage to Eddie, among other things. Seemed like she was doing well with Tom. They dated for several years and were married for ten. Awful that it ended this way and hurt her so badly.

[Anonymous]

Her son is a legit musician.

[Anonymous]

Her contract wasn't renewed on the Food Channel. She seems adrift and gained a lot of weight. Maybe depressed/ midlife crisis.

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't she revel in her sense of betrayal and loss? Y'all eat it up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her contract wasn't renewed on the Food Channel. She seems adrift and gained a lot of weight. Maybe depressed/ midlife crisis.

She'll be in 64 in April. Not midlife, more like 3/4 life crisis. But I hope she pulls through.

[Anonymous]

It’s Bertinelli, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She should have never remarried. Eddie was her true love.

If that was true, they wouldn't have divorced..

Well sometimes you do divorce and regret it later.