Divorced dad looking for a wealthy woman

[Anonymous]

So how do I go about finding one of those wealthy woman? I am divorced 44 2 kids good looking in great shape and work as an Economist. Which App is best for meeting a single lady that earn significantly more than I do ( I make 120k).

Society thinks it’s totally Okay for women to seek wealthy men. Well I am seeking a similarly wealthy single woman.

[Anonymous]

Go right ahead, good luck!

[Anonymous]

OP I don’t know. My experience is that when the pay gap is huge it *could* create conflicts.

I make 110k and DW 380k. I don’t know if it’s the stress of her job or the fact that her job title got over head or just a *boss lady* mania our marriage is a disaster and we are heading for divorce. I’ll spare folks the details of our issues but I’ll just say that big pay gap can create unhealthy dynamics at home. And it goes both ways. Women married to men that make significantly more are similarly in challenging marriages.

[Anonymous]

Compared to say 20 years ago you will certainly find more relationships like the one you are seeking.

However I think women are far less likely to be with someone who make significantly less than they do.

But I think in the legal field there is probably a good share of childless women too busy to be bothered to be tied down. Those women though I am not sure you want to be anywhere near them….

[Anonymous]

If you have friends in high paying jobs, ask them to set you up. If that's what your heart is set on, it shouldn't be hard at all. I can think of a few women your age that make low seven figures but also are single parents. You need to bring a lot of initiative to the table, be ready to make all the plans, solve her non-work problems and make yourself a vital part of a happily functioning and easy life.

[Anonymous]

Would you be open to a non-working woman with wealth? The dynamic is not the same between high-income/average assets, and low or no-income/high assets.

Although I'm not sure how I feel about being pursued for my money...

[Anonymous]

Good luck OP lol. I like your idea though. You are correct it’s totally okay for women to not only publicly announced to the entire world that they are seeking wealthy me but don’t dare call them gold diggers else you know the responses lol. it’s time for men to do so more openly as well.

[Anonymous]

That's not a good look on a man, OP. Better to make your own money and be independent.

[Anonymous]

So you want to be stay at home bf fiancé or husband. Why not? It’s time for more men to do so honestly. Women are encouraged to do by everyone family friend etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's not a good look on a man, OP. Better to make your own money and be independent.

Ah I thought we were in the era of absolute gender equality.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's not a good look on a man, OP. Better to make your own money and be independent.

OP doesn’t have to tell anyone this is what he wants.

I’m in my 40s and a dad and I like Hinge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good luck OP lol. I like your idea though. You are correct it’s totally okay for women to not only publicly announced to the entire world that they are seeking wealthy me but don’t dare call them gold diggers else you know the responses lol. it’s time for men to do so more openly as well.

It's never been socially acceptable for any gender to openly declare they are after a wealthy partner. Even in past centuries, it was couched in different ways.

An anonymous discussion board on the internet is NOT equivalent to a public announcement in real life, and if you're around people who do that, then you are not part of polite society and your views are fringe.

[Anonymous]

You’re not wrong for seeking this I just don’t think you’ll have any luck. I’m an attractive divorced 39yo with two kids making $350k. Since I don’t need money and don’t want more kids, and all my emotional support needs are met by girlfriends/family, I have no reason at all to introduce male nonsense into my life. I might consider it if there was a huge upside for me, as in he makes $2M+. Otherwise I’m perfectly content to remain single forever. I love having my own space and doing literally whatever I want at all times when the kids are with their dad. Why in the world would I give that up for someone who can’t even afford the same lifestyle as me, much less treat me to a nicer one?

[Anonymous]

No he wants someone to split everything to the penny ladies run away

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No he wants someone to split everything to the penny ladies run away

Yep, huge turnoff. ew.