Should I tell the bride she’s not married?

[Anonymous]

1 year ago we went to a wedding. Distant relatives technically but close.

They are not registered married. Yes I need to mind my business.
Religiously it counts cause it was in a church. And I know legally it counts if the wedded couple didn’t know.

But the bride is very traditional. Very very traditional. She has always wanted to be a wife etc. I just know something has had to have happened with the paperwork. Like they forget to send it in or I think the priest is supposed to do it?

If someone who knew that I wasn’t legally married knew and didn’t tell my I would be hurt. I know this isn’t a problem really but trust me this is a mistake.

I mean wouldn’t you want to know?

[Anonymous]

No. MYOB

How do you know she doesn’t know? And why do you care?

Sometimes, even if you’re intentions are good; it may be taken the wrong way, and you will end up as the villain.

And you say religiously it counts because it was in a church and legal it counts if the couple doesn’t know. I would leave it at that.

[Anonymous]

How do you know this?

[Anonymous]

How did you get come to get this information?

[Anonymous]

As the "married couple" if anyone told me this, my immediate reaction would be that you are creepy for even digging for this info. Forget about their marital status, what on earth made you research this? It was not an accidental find, you were looking for it. Mind your own damn business!

[Anonymous]

Op here
You’re right maybe she does know

But a traditional couple with the bride being almost conservative. Sometimes you just can tell

And I talked about this w a SJW and she always chooses the other side to ”side” with in an argument.

[Anonymous]

How do you know this information?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here
You’re right maybe she does know

But a traditional couple with the bride being almost conservative. Sometimes you just can tell

And I talked about this w a SJW and she always chooses the other side to ”side” with in an argument.

What is an "SJW"? Single Jewish Woman?

[Anonymous]

What does "not registered married" mean? Where would you even go to look for this?

If she changed her name, she needed legal paperwork to accomplish this. I think it's very likely you are mistaken.

[Anonymous]

Stop dodging the question OP.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THIS?

[Anonymous]

How do you know ?
You are creepy, leave them alone.

[Anonymous]

I actually saw a story the other day about couples who have weddings but don’t register marriage paperwork with legal authorities, intentionally.

There are certain legal advantages to remaining unmarried, but having the wedding ceremony feeds the familial and cultural expectations.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop dodging the question OP.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THIS?

+1

[Anonymous]

OP must be so miserable to be around. Can you imagine being this much of a busy body? Get a life.

[Anonymous]

Please tell them so everyone knows what a weirdo you are and steers clear.