child is gay but not out and sleepovers

[Anonymous]

I am fairly sure she is gay, but she hasn't come out yet.
What do we do about same-sex sleepovers, which we have always allowed?
She has 2 sisters.

[Anonymous]

She hasn't come out to US.

[Anonymous]

You do nothing. I’m sure she can control herself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You do nothing. I’m sure she can control herself.

Would you also be okay with straight tweens of the opposite sex having a sleepover?

[Anonymous]

Nothing. You don't even know yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You do nothing. I’m sure she can control herself.

Would you also be okay with straight tweens of the opposite sex having a sleepover?

Sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing. You don't even know yourself.

Pretty sure I do, and pretty sure these are more than friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nothing. You don't even know yourself.

Pretty sure I do, and pretty sure these are more than friends.

Wait, you think your daughter is gay, involved in a romantic relationship with more than 1 girl, and wants to invite her multiple romantic partners for a sleepover?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nothing. You don't even know yourself.

Pretty sure I do, and pretty sure these are more than friends.

Wait, you think your daughter is gay, involved in a romantic relationship with more than 1 girl, and wants to invite her multiple romantic partners for a sleepover?

Yeah, this has troll written all over it. Try again, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You do nothing. I’m sure she can control herself.

Would you also be okay with straight tweens of the opposite sex having a sleepover?

It's not the same because there are way less risks with two female tween exploring. It might not be ideal, but it's not the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am fairly sure she is gay, but she hasn't come out yet.
What do we do about same-sex sleepovers, which we have always allowed?
She has 2 sisters.

At a certain age, sleepovers are no longer allowed. That would be ages 12-13 anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am fairly sure she is gay, but she hasn't come out yet.
What do we do about same-sex sleepovers, which we have always allowed?
She has 2 sisters.

At a certain age, sleepovers are no longer allowed. That would be ages 12-13 anyway.

Most kids have sleepovers through high school

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am fairly sure she is gay, but she hasn't come out yet.
What do we do about same-sex sleepovers, which we have always allowed?
She has 2 sisters.

What do you mean what do you do? What is the issue, exactly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am fairly sure she is gay, but she hasn't come out yet.
What do we do about same-sex sleepovers, which we have always allowed?
She has 2 sisters.

At a certain age, sleepovers are no longer allowed. That would be ages 12-13 anyway.

Most kids have sleepovers through high school

Mine didn’t. They did them all the time from about age 5-12 but when HS rolled around they preferred their own beds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You do nothing. I’m sure she can control herself.

Would you also be okay with straight tweens of the opposite sex having a sleepover?

It's not the same because there are way less risks with two female tween exploring. It might not be ideal, but it's not the same.

Which risks are you referring to that are way less? Pregnancy, STD?

Unless you are a rare "anti-abortion, even for my own kid" person, it's pretty similar.