Grooming styles changing?
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Anonymous
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Apologies if this is posted somewhere and I missed it.
40 year old, mom of two. Kids are getting older and I’m starting to get back to my “pre kid” shape with running, peloton, etc. Long story short- I “let myself go” (not upset about it, totally fine mentally, having kids is hard to find personal time). So I’m wondering between friends- grooming down south. What’s the 2023 update on this as… I’ve sort of embraced the natural look. Where in my 20s I was hairless. I read the bikini thread and noticed the same thing. All these new bathing suits I feel wayy too minimal coverage for how I am now at least. Haha Do most of you moms keep it now after the kids or older age? Or still waxing or lasering it all off? |
Anonymous
| Early 50s full bush. I think it's the youngesters, and those who grew up with online porn, who Iike hairless women |
Anonymous
| 42 and I shave it all off. Been doing this for the entirety of my adult life. |
Anonymous
| I wax or use a body hair trimmer. I hate shaving. |
Anonymous
| 38. I get the whole underside waxed and a medium, natural-ish triangle on the front, trimmed. |
Anonymous
Lucky- you must not have thick coarse hair. If I did this I'd be stubble city in 12 hours. |
Anonymous
| I’m 39. I just trim the front part, shave the edges (just what would stick out of a bathing suit) and shave the underside. |
Anonymous
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OP here: so it looks like I’m not the only one at least. I had this feeling I’m still the outlier in a hairless world haha
I keep a triangle. Nothing would poke out of a normal bathing suit but I also do keep the “under” area. Use a beard trimmer. This thread makes me feel more at ease. Thank you ladies. |
Anonymous
DP; I use tend skin and shave daily. |
Anonymous
| 53 and still can pull off a bikini with one child. Full bush but make sure nothing sticks out the sides. DH loves it! |
Anonymous
| Age 38 and lasered almost all off, trim the rest at least once a week, more as needed. |
Anonymous
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I’m all for doing whatever you want but I’m kind of dazzled that you would base it on what other women are doing.
Are we having a bush line up I didn’t know about? Are we feeling super shy about the OB/GYN? |
Anonymous
Haha I was only curious since it’s been awhile that I’ve actually “cared” what I did down there. Was wondering what people do at this age (and with kids) versus maybe they did before. DCUM is not going to determine if I decide to shave again or keep the triangle. I don’t think. Haha |
Anonymous
| Bring back the bush! |
Anonymous
| Ew, the bush is just in the way of even normal day to day care. |