my future daughter in law does not wear jewelry. I'm looking for ideas for something special to give her to officially welcome her into our family. Almost everything special I find is jewelry, and unfortunately that is out. I want to give her something special at her shower, so I also need ideas for that, but primarily looking for a gift I can give her on the day of the wedding. I want it to be meaningful and I've seen plaques, etc., but nothing seems to compare to the significance a piece of jewelry would have.
Any ideas? |
A piece of art for her home? A nice bag of some kind - purse/briefcase/backpack or nice luggage she can use in her married life? What does she like, you haven’t given us much to go on except she doesn’t like jewelry. |
A painting? |
She loves gardening, loves the outdoors, is a nurse, has beautiful long hair (maybe a special hair clip...I just thought of that one ) A piece of artwork for her home might be a good one. I just keep comparing everything to a piece of heirloom jewelry and nothing seems to compare. But a piece of special art work might be something that can become an heirloom. |
Would she wear a watch? |
Yes, but I just helped my son pick out a watch for her from him lol. That was a good idea, though. I could have had it engraved. |
OP here. Nice idea. Thank you. |
My mother in law got me a classic Chanel purse. It’s a quilted black bag with a chain and I can’t really see it ever going out of style? I only use it 3/4 times a year but out of the 22 years I’ve been married I always find a few occasions to wear it. I’m not a “bag girl” but it has some practical and elegant purposes. |
Park Seed Gift Certificate in a lovely card telling her how happy you are that she is joining your family. |
Are you sure she doesn't like any kind of jewelry? Is it possible she just couldn't afford what she really wants? |
Someone gave me a gardening bench that I love. You can sit on it or you can kneel on it while doing yardwork.
https://www.amazon.com/Gardeners-Supply-Company-Wide-Seat-Folding/dp/B007XIWTH4/ref=pd_bxgy_sccl_1/146-4209551-0103724?pd_rd_w=ULqbw&content-id=amzn1.sym.26a5c67f-1a30-486b-bb90-b523ad38d5a0&pf_rd_p=26a5c67f-1a30-486b-bb90-b523ad38d5a0&pf_rd_r=NT2MAGTY1SY2ZVQXNZWK&pd_rd_wg=yNYov&pd_rd_r=57bb756e-b995-4421-9d8c-f5bdb412a8f4&pd_rd_i=B007XIWTH4&th=1 |
What a great gift! |
Art is so personal, though. Unless she has mentioned an artist or painting, how would you know if she liked it? |
a beautiful vase (crystal? or whatever you think suits her style)
a really nice set of wind chimes a gift certificate for them to pick out something for their yard that will grow for years (tree, rosebush, etc.) I’d recommend against a painting. I’m sure you have excellent taste, but even so, art is intensely personal. and they may prefer other styles. A painting is designed to be displayed and draws the eye. If they don’t happen to care for it, they’ll still be looking at it for years. |