He is the one paying the price because he is the one who raped somebody. Because he is a rapist. By action, and by law. What happened to the victim has everything to do with him. Because he raped her. |
Did you have to create this whole false narrative of 'what really happened' to make yourself feel better for being a rape apologist? |
That is the narrative. PP added judgment, not facts. You can read that and think, he's a rapist because he didn't stop (or notice) when she passed out. You can also read it and think, she made some poor choices. She was a college grad, he was a freshmen. Who needs protecting from who? |
I'm gonna say the woman who got raped by the rapist needs protection. |
In a court of law rape charges were dropped. You can call him rapist all you want but he is not a rapist. You are speaking form a position of social justice and it's a very dangerous trend. |
What part is false? Did she not drink herself black out drunk? Did he not drink heavily himself? Did he not come on to women at the party? Did Emily Doe not kiss and leave the party with him? I think it's more likely that the sexual activity was consensual on her part than it is that she left the party to have him walk her home or help her hail a cab or...whatever "logical" explanation you might be able to think of for her leaving the party with this guy. Just because she did A LOT of things wrong herself does not excuse what this guy did to her. He was wrong and he was convicted for his wrongdoing. But Emily Doe is responsible for hurting herself too - because blacking out on a public street by a dumpster and not knowing what happened to yourself or how you got there because you drank yourself passed out is absolutely HURTING YOURSELF. |
I hope you don't think every student accepted at Stanford or any other top school necessarily has the academic background and writing skills to be there. That's why so many schools have implemented programs to assist freshmen "adjust" to the rigors of college. There are all kinds of reasons for students being admitted to round out the student body. https://teachingcommons.stanford.edu/resources/teaching-resources/interacting-students/supporting-vulnerable-students |
This is entirely your speculation. And even if it were: once she was unconscious and he continued, it was sexual assault. Although if we're speculating, I'd go ahead an say he raped her, but they couldn't prove it. Since we're speculating. Also since we're speculating, one has to wonder why so many posters are defending rape. It's creepy. |
There are many people in this world who could be called sh**bag and worse, but let's not call someone a rapist, murderer, child molester, etc. unless that person actually is one. |
Leave it to California...
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| Joining the thread late, but to those who are defending BAT would you have sexual contact (with your penis inside the body or your fingers inside the vagina/anus) with your wife if she was passed out? |
And it is way creepy of you to keep insisting that this guy must have raped this woman and that he somehow magically transported her drunken self to that dumpster area. Because he was not convicted of rape or kidnapping. And she was seen kissing the guy and leaving with him willingly. What exactly do you think that she was planning to do with him? It was a college hook up, they left together willingly to go fool around, she passed out, he kept on sexually engaging with her body - and now he's in jail. No one is saying that what he did was right or excusable. No one. There are no "apologists" on this thread. |
OK, weirdo rape-apologist pedant. What he did arises to the level of "rape" in many other jurisdictions in this country. He's still a no-good, entitled, shitbag RAPIST. And boo-fucking-hoo if he has to live with that label. |
Distorting the facts do not make your argument credible. The fingering may have been consensual on her part for all we know. Maybe she passed out during the process of being fingered She can't tell you if it was or not because she doesn't remember. You can not convict or call him a rapist when the facts are this vague. You don't know what happened. Emily Doe doesn't know what happened. And the accused gets the benefit of the doubt unless proved otherwise. It wasn't proved otherwise. So you are out of line calling him a rapist. Distorting the facts only makes what he actually DID do look made up. Don't you get that? That does not help Emily Doe. That does not help victims of sex crimes. From what I've read it sounds as thought the swedes came upon this guy dry humping her. That is what they were able to get him on. |
timing is everything. If I was fooling around with my wife, and during the fingering she passed out, it might take me more than a few minutes for my drunken brain to realize that if I was fingering away. |