Number of kids
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Anonymous
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I really do respect everyone's choices in the number of children they have.
But for me, I have to say that 2 is enough! One would have been a breeze, 2 is much crazier and I just can't even imagine 3 or more. That is all. And I am 1 of 3. |
Anonymous
| I have 3. It is a lot. I don’t understand why someone would purposely have 4+ |
Anonymous
| Confirming that one is indeed a breeze. It’s like having your cake and eating it too. Best part is how much DD loves being an only. |
Anonymous
And my kids are neurotypical, no special needs- and it is still a lot |
Anonymous
My friend had all girls and then had "her boy" as her 4th child. |
Anonymous
+1 I was so conflicted with my choice at first. I always pictured either zero or two, never an only. Once I let the hormones subside after a year or two, I see how perfect my choice was! |
Anonymous
| I am also 1 of 3 and found that 2 is the perfect number for us. I thought I wanted 3 kids but once we had 2 I was good. My kids are now 10 and 13, and never once have I regretted our decision to stop at 2. |
Anonymous
Yeah I bet. Stop there and enjoy while the rest of us go crazy. |
Anonymous
Yes, same. I have 2 girls and I just knew that was it. I feel "complete"! If anything I would like to add another dog or cat to our lives in the future. |
Anonymous
Ha, well she’s 9 and I’m well into perimenopause, so that ship sailed a while ago. |
Anonymous
I have a 6 year age gap between 1 and 2 and this is such an accurate way of putting it. I tell friends they shouldn’t be afraid of having 1 and 1 only because it’s really not that big of a change to your life. Now I have 3 and that’s a different story! |
Anonymous
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I know the future could hold any number of challenges, but I have to agree that my family of two close-in-age girls feels perfect.
The second was an accident and it was the luckiest break. The have about 2 years between them, get along fantastically, and I feel like I hit the parenting lottery sometimes. I get a lot of "wait til their teenagers" comments though so we'll see. I was an ahole as a teen so I deserve what's coming to me haha. |
Anonymous
| I am so happy we had 4 and can’t imagine only having 2. Funny how it’s such a personal decision. |
Anonymous
| We have six. Four live with us. I had to shift my mindset to that similar to a teacher herding a class of kids from activity to activity and then it got a lot easier. Then you just pull kids aside when there's a problem or whatever. |
Anonymous
| Having one is not a breeze if you wanted two, and can't. Then you get to parent one with crippling grief. |