How to make traveling without DH fun
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Anonymous
| We're entering a weird period where DH won't be able to travel with us much, and the kids (8 and 11) aren't thrilled about it. How can I make it better for them? We generally do a quick weekend trip once a month, then 2-3 longer ones a year, and they've already started complaining they'd rather stay home. I am subject to mandatory remote work because of covid though, and I need to get out. How do I get them back on board? |
Anonymous
| I agree with them. I wouldn’t want to travel without DH. |
Anonymous
| In Japan, you can rent a husband. We need that here. |
Anonymous
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Why don’t you leave them home with your husband and go on trips alone?
Going away one weekend a month is a bit much if you ask me |
Anonymous
No one asked you. |
Anonymous
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What are their reasons for not wanting to go if their father doesn't. Your husband usually drives and you will get stressed out doing it? You want to go to different types of activities/venues than if their father was there? He allows after dinner ice cream & swimming in the hotel pool and you don't?
At least I'd go by myself some and other times take each one for their own trip for some one-on-one time with each parent. |
Anonymous
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OP here. We no longer live in DC, and opportunities for children are limited where we are. I don't want them thinking this kind of life is normal, hence the short weekend trips to expose them to other things.
Also, DH will be working weekends, so staying home isn't an option for them. |
Anonymous
| Is the pool boy free? |
Anonymous
Project much? |
Anonymous
| Do u have a friend with kids the same age? Can u go with them? If he is in a job where he works weekends there must be coworkers with douses in the sane boat. Not that you can make instant friends but light be worth trying tk get into that network/circle. I work 2 weekends every month and we are friends with other shift working type people. |
Anonymous
| Excuse my typos above. |
Anonymous
No, no friends where we live. |
Anonymous
Yes, I’m interested in knowing why they prefer to travel with DH as well. That info will shape our responses. My kids would be perfectly happy to travel with just me as DH gets more stressed out by change. Unless the vacation involved a lot of mini-golf, that is. I am not a fan and he loves it. |
Anonymous
They just like hanging out with him, and I haven't yet been able to convince them DH will be working, not sitting at home without them. We actually travel fairly well without him, but this shift has got them a bit confused. |
Anonymous
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What kind of trips have you typically done? What activities do your kids like? Are they the type of activities that your H usually take a lead in? You gotta give us more info here to work with.
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