When guys date younger women in your experience are they really dating their maturity age?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm a man in my early 60s who only dates women in their 40s. There is no reason to overly complicate this. All you got to do is read this board to know what happens to women as they age. Most of them after menopause have no interest in sex.


I'm sure they throw up in their mouths when they have to lick your shrinking balls.
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Anonymous wrote:If a successful man wants children or more children after previous relationship, they have to be mindful of fertility. After 35 most women are nearly barren, so they prefer younger more fertile women.



Yes I’m sure the 60 year old is hoping to procreate with his 25YO partner. Definitely

These are divorced men who have had their families and now like to date young women. Presumably they’ve all had vasectomies. I see how your real point was to insult women over 35 as being “barren”, but I think you’re on the wrong track.


You're projecting. 25 y/o and 60 y/o is so rare it's not even worth discussing. I was more-so referring to late 20s gal with a 30s/40s successful man. Outside of a sap like Prince Harry, most men that age who want [more] children are not going to waste time with a fertility-challenged woman their own age. A famous example would be Chris Pratt (39) divorcing and then marrying Katherine Schwarzenegger (28), then immediately having a child.


He was cheating on Anna Farris who is way prettier and funnier than Katherine S. Anna F. broke it off.


Beauty and humor are subjective. 40-something ex wife is barren. He clearly wanted a larger family, thus immediate pregnancy with new young wife, and I suspect a couple more in the near future.
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Anonymous wrote:If a successful man wants children or more children after previous relationship, they have to be mindful of fertility. After 35 most women are nearly barren, so they prefer younger more fertile women.



Yes I’m sure the 60 year old is hoping to procreate with his 25YO partner. Definitely

These are divorced men who have had their families and now like to date young women. Presumably they’ve all had vasectomies. I see how your real point was to insult women over 35 as being “barren”, but I think you’re on the wrong track.


You're projecting. 25 y/o and 60 y/o is so rare it's not even worth discussing. I was more-so referring to late 20s gal with a 30s/40s successful man. Outside of a sap like Prince Harry, most men that age who want [more] children are not going to waste time with a fertility-challenged woman their own age. A famous example would be Chris Pratt (39) divorcing and then marrying Katherine Schwarzenegger (28), then immediately having a child.


He was cheating on Anna Farris who is way prettier and funnier than Katherine S. Anna F. broke it off.


Beauty and humor are subjective. 40-something ex wife is barren. He clearly wanted a larger family, thus immediate pregnancy with new young wife, and I suspect a couple more in the near future.


Lol anna Farris is a comedy queen. Made famous because of her humor and beauty. Wtf are you talking about? She is way more beautiful than the new wife and she is actually married again! The man was cheating and could've knocked up any of the women he was sleeping with.
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Anonymous wrote:The thought of my 20 year old DD going out with a 45 year old makes me so sad. Also wouldn’t a much older man be self conscious of his ageing body? I know people say men don’t care but the contrast between a woman so much younger would be stark.


+1. I did know two girls in college who dated a couple of guys in their early 30’s and I remember our whole friend group was disgusted, sat them down and told them it wasn’t right and they need to stop. These girls had daddy issues and one was mentally unstable in general. These older guys have problems and target young women with issues bc no normal young person would date more than 10 yrs older.


Who are these 20 year olds who are dating these old men? No one I know now or when I was in my 20's is dating these much older men. Just couldn't relate to them culturally.


When I was in college one of my friends was not just dating but living with a man who was 25 years older. I also had a former girlfriend who married a guy who was about 25 years older than her. She was a total slut but somehow a 45 year old farmer tamed her.
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Anonymous wrote:If a successful man wants children or more children after previous relationship, they have to be mindful of fertility. After 35 most women are nearly barren, so they prefer younger more fertile women.


Yes I’m sure the 60 year old is hoping to procreate with his 25YO partner. Definitely

These are divorced men who have had their families and now like to date young women. Presumably they’ve all had vasectomies. I see how your real point was to insult women over 35 as being “barren”, but I think you’re on the wrong track.


I have a relative who didn't get married until he was 62. He is now mid-70s with a 13 and 11 year old. I have a male friend who is mid-70s raising his teenaged stepson.


You recognize that both are outliers? If I was 11 with a 75 year old father I’d hate it. My dad just turned 70 and he’s a grandfather to my kids (14-10)


+100. So irresponsible to have a young kid at that age. I'd hate it to have a dad that age at school functions/games etc.


It's pretty common in my high income neighborhood for men in their 50s-60s to be on their second family. See them all the time at elementary school events. Their kids seem to love their fathers.
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Anonymous wrote:If a successful man wants children or more children after previous relationship, they have to be mindful of fertility. After 35 most women are nearly barren, so they prefer younger more fertile women.


Yes I’m sure the 60 year old is hoping to procreate with his 25YO partner. Definitely

These are divorced men who have had their families and now like to date young women. Presumably they’ve all had vasectomies. I see how your real point was to insult women over 35 as being “barren”, but I think you’re on the wrong track.


I have a relative who didn't get married until he was 62. He is now mid-70s with a 13 and 11 year old. I have a male friend who is mid-70s raising his teenaged stepson.


You recognize that both are outliers? If I was 11 with a 75 year old father I’d hate it. My dad just turned 70 and he’s a grandfather to my kids (14-10)


+100. So irresponsible to have a young kid at that age. I'd hate it to have a dad that age at school functions/games etc.


It's pretty common in my high income neighborhood for men in their 50s-60s to be on their second family. See them all the time at elementary school events. Their kids seem to love their fathers.


yes but it becomes a bit more challenging once kids become older and are in sports etc. Just a different dynamic at that point.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:The thought of my 20 year old DD going out with a 45 year old makes me so sad. Also wouldn’t a much older man be self conscious of his ageing body? I know people say men don’t care but the contrast between a woman so much younger would be stark.


+1. I did know two girls in college who dated a couple of guys in their early 30’s and I remember our whole friend group was disgusted, sat them down and told them it wasn’t right and they need to stop. These girls had daddy issues and one was mentally unstable in general. These older guys have problems and target young women with issues bc no normal young person would date more than 10 yrs older.


Who are these 20 year olds who are dating these old men? No one I know now or when I was in my 20's is dating these much older men. Just couldn't relate to them culturally.


When I was in college one of my friends was not just dating but living with a man who was 25 years older. I also had a former girlfriend who married a guy who was about 25 years older than her. She was a total slut but somehow a 45 year old farmer tamed her.


Pretty sure MSNBC's Katy Tur was like 26 years old and living with a 50 year old Keith Olbermann (who was the star of the network at the time).
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thought of my 20 year old DD going out with a 45 year old makes me so sad. Also wouldn’t a much older man be self conscious of his ageing body? I know people say men don’t care but the contrast between a woman so much younger would be stark.


+1. I did know two girls in college who dated a couple of guys in their early 30’s and I remember our whole friend group was disgusted, sat them down and told them it wasn’t right and they need to stop. These girls had daddy issues and one was mentally unstable in general. These older guys have problems and target young women with issues bc no normal young person would date more than 10 yrs older.


Who are these 20 year olds who are dating these old men? No one I know now or when I was in my 20's is dating these much older men. Just couldn't relate to them culturally.


When I was in college one of my friends was not just dating but living with a man who was 25 years older. I also had a former girlfriend who married a guy who was about 25 years older than her. She was a total slut but somehow a 45 year old farmer tamed her.


My teen cousin is a total slut too. I see her marrying someone older and well off. Maybe thats the case for the younger women looking for sugar daddies though. BTW my cousin is a head case 19 and slept with dozens of men already. Shes not hot though.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thought of my 20 year old DD going out with a 45 year old makes me so sad. Also wouldn’t a much older man be self conscious of his ageing body? I know people say men don’t care but the contrast between a woman so much younger would be stark.


+1. I did know two girls in college who dated a couple of guys in their early 30’s and I remember our whole friend group was disgusted, sat them down and told them it wasn’t right and they need to stop. These girls had daddy issues and one was mentally unstable in general. These older guys have problems and target young women with issues bc no normal young person would date more than 10 yrs older.


Who are these 20 year olds who are dating these old men? No one I know now or when I was in my 20's is dating these much older men. Just couldn't relate to them culturally.


When I was in college one of my friends was not just dating but living with a man who was 25 years older. I also had a former girlfriend who married a guy who was about 25 years older than her. She was a total slut but somehow a 45 year old farmer tamed her.


Pretty sure MSNBC's Katy Tur was like 26 years old and living with a 50 year old Keith Olbermann (who was the star of the network at the time).


Brad pitts open marriage 28 yr old fling is married to a 69 yr old. Brad pitt was banging a 28 yr old model who was also bedding a man more than twice her age.
Anonymous
Pp here. Now the model is pregnant and she already has a kid with the older man! And this new kid could be the old man's Brad pitts kid or another man's kid
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Pp here. Now the model is pregnant and she already has a kid with the older man! And this new kid could be the old man's Brad pitts kid or another man's kid


OK so what's your point? This situation is pretty messed up and the child at that age isn't a good situation in most cases.
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Anonymous wrote:If a successful man wants children or more children after previous relationship, they have to be mindful of fertility. After 35 most women are nearly barren, so they prefer younger more fertile women.


Yes I’m sure the 60 year old is hoping to procreate with his 25YO partner. Definitely

These are divorced men who have had their families and now like to date young women. Presumably they’ve all had vasectomies. I see how your real point was to insult women over 35 as being “barren”, but I think you’re on the wrong track.


I have a relative who didn't get married until he was 62. He is now mid-70s with a 13 and 11 year old. I have a male friend who is mid-70s raising his teenaged stepson.


You recognize that both are outliers? If I was 11 with a 75 year old father I’d hate it. My dad just turned 70 and he’s a grandfather to my kids (14-10)


+100. So irresponsible to have a young kid at that age. I'd hate it to have a dad that age at school functions/games etc.


It's pretty common in my high income neighborhood for men in their 50s-60s to be on their second family. See them all the time at elementary school events. Their kids seem to love their fathers.


So interesting. Its not common at all in my high income neighborhood. Plus, early 50's with kid in elementary is nothing like a 75 year old man being at his 11 year olds 5th grade play. I mean.....you do you, but as a woman in my mid 40's with middle schoolers/high schoolers the thought of going back to babies and a do over family would be awful. I loved having kids, but I love having free time and disposable income more.

Maybe its their insecurities about losing their first family or knowing they cant keep a young woman without siring some offspring for her?

Poor fellas, seems like so much pressure. No wonder high income women fare better after divorce if they don't remarry.
Anonymous
Billionaire Uber founder, age 44, dating age 27 model since last year.

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Anonymous
It depends. Different people have different preferences. I use a dating website to find night hookups. And sometimes I see people who are 6 and more but they look better than those who are 40. That is why they want to have beautiful partners. You can also check this site to find your ideal person.
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