What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My affair. My husband’s interest in me sexually became non existent after 20 years of marriage but otherwise we co-exist nicely. We have a DADT agreement and it works for me. This is not what I wished for in a marriage but going sex less was not an option.

Realize a lot of the men you are having sex with do not have that agreement in their marriages and you and your spouse are opening yourselves and family to danger, your kids finding out, etc if a betrayed angry spouse finds out you are screwing her husband. I hope you are keeping it to single people.

You have no idea about any of the men she is having sex with. Stop projecting your ideas on her choices.

The insanity and bitterness by female respondents on this topic is unreal. Lunatics.

[Anonymous]

People who think people have no idea they are swingers are dead wrong. That news travels like wildfire.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My affair. My husband’s interest in me sexually became non existent after 20 years of marriage but otherwise we co-exist nicely. We have a DADT agreement and it works for me. This is not what I wished for in a marriage but going sex less was not an option.

Realize a lot of the men you are having sex with do not have that agreement in their marriages and you and your spouse are opening yourselves and family to danger, your kids finding out, etc if a betrayed angry spouse finds out you are screwing her husband. I hope you are keeping it to single people.

You have no idea about any of the men she is having sex with. Stop projecting your ideas on her choices.

The insanity and bitterness by female respondents on this topic is unreal. Lunatics.

I think this is certified letter betrayed spouse poster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People who think people have no idea they are swingers are dead wrong. That news travels like wildfire.

+100

Same with the DADT people

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My affair. My husband’s interest in me sexually became non existent after 20 years of marriage but otherwise we co-exist nicely. We have a DADT agreement and it works for me. This is not what I wished for in a marriage but going sex less was not an option.

Realize a lot of the men you are having sex with do not have that agreement in their marriages and you and your spouse are opening yourselves and family to danger, your kids finding out, etc if a betrayed angry spouse finds out you are screwing her husband. I hope you are keeping it to single people.

You have no idea about any of the men she is having sex with. Stop projecting your ideas on her choices.

The insanity and bitterness by female respondents on this topic is unreal. Lunatics.

I think this is certified letter betrayed spouse poster.

Whoever it is she/he has a great point. The other being when kids get into their teens they often discover this arrangement and it f@Cks them up psychologically. Kids are very perceptive and technologically savvier than parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:His complete lack of sex drive. Though I think it’s easy to guess we’re not super active in the bedroom dept.

Medical issues or is he getting it elsewhere?

Functional depression. Also you’re a horrible person.

[Anonymous]

DH does not know that one of the families that we meet regularly with is an ex-boyfriend. I had been with him for 4 months and broke up. Long afterwards I met DH.

We met the family through other friends and both of us kept up a facade that we are meeting for the first time. So neither his wife nor DH has any idea of our past relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH does not know that one of the families that we meet regularly with is an ex-boyfriend. I had been with him for 4 months and broke up. Long afterwards I met DH.

We met the family through other friends and both of us kept up a facade that we are meeting for the first time. So neither his wife nor DH has any idea of our past relationship.

I had a ONS with my husband’s former boss years before we met. I don’t think he remembers and I definitely kept a low profile jic it clicked. They no longer work together and we’re not social. My husband has no idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:His complete lack of sex drive. Though I think it’s easy to guess we’re not super active in the bedroom dept.

Medical issues or is he getting it elsewhere?

Functional depression. Also you’re a horrible person.

Nope, just stating what happens in many cases.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:His complete lack of sex drive. Though I think it’s easy to guess we’re not super active in the bedroom dept.

Medical issues or is he getting it elsewhere?

Functional depression. Also you’re a horrible person.

Nope, just stating what happens in many cases.

Not this one. And your response is still rude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People who think people have no idea they are swingers are dead wrong. That news travels like wildfire.

+100

Same with the DADT people

Who cares? It's consensual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People who think people have no idea they are swingers are dead wrong. That news travels like wildfire.

+100

Same with the DADT people

Who cares? It's consensual.

You will be a social pariah in the neighborhood and school communities and your kids/teens will be horrified. So- there is that...

[Anonymous]

My husband is a pastor. It usually all ends up in a sermon!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People who think people have no idea they are swingers are dead wrong. That news travels like wildfire.

+100

Same with the DADT people

You don't know what you don't know. I know many people in different lifestyles including swingers, and those with different versions of DADT. I'm one of them. Believe it or not, we manage to keep our secrets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My affair. My husband’s interest in me sexually became non existent after 20 years of marriage but otherwise we co-exist nicely. We have a DADT agreement and it works for me. This is not what I wished for in a marriage but going sex less was not an option.

Realize a lot of the men you are having sex with do not have that agreement in their marriages and you and your spouse are opening yourselves and family to danger, your kids finding out, etc if a betrayed angry spouse finds out you are screwing her husband. I hope you are keeping it to single people.

You have no idea about any of the men she is having sex with. Stop projecting your ideas on her choices.

The insanity and bitterness by female respondents on this topic is unreal. Lunatics.

I'm neither insane, nor bitter in the least. I am a man who posted the bolded statement so you are wrong on three counts. As a man who has had numerous APs over more than a decade, half of them were single women and none of the married women were found out by their spouses or anyone else. The majority of people pull this off just fine. Oh he horror if my kids had found out? Hell, they would be on my side. Trust me. They lived through my bad marriage to their mother.