What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW has realized she like women too, after 15 years of marriage. She regrets the lack of experience. Otherwise, things seem normal and above average.

so what’s the problem? Let her go explore and experiment - doesn’t mean you have to be involved, just there for support.

Why would any spouse support that? You want your husband out there exploring and experimenting with other men? Oh it’s okay because she is a woman and we should not apply the same standards.

A husband would support it because anything that elicits a wife's (typically low) sex drive is valuable. Men don't have this lack of interest problem and a different standard makes sense.
So put me (DH) down as a supporter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW has realized she like women too, after 15 years of marriage. She regrets the lack of experience. Otherwise, things seem normal and above average.

so what’s the problem? Let her go explore and experiment - doesn’t mean you have to be involved, just there for support.

Why would any spouse support that? You want your husband out there exploring and experimenting with other men? Oh it’s okay because she is a woman and we should not apply the same standards.

A husband would support it because anything that elicits a wife's (typically low) sex drive is valuable. Men don't have this lack of interest problem and a different standard makes sense.
So put me (DH) down as a supporter.

So if she wanted to have sex with another man you are up for that also...you know to get her sex drive up...lol what a dope.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW has realized she like women too, after 15 years of marriage. She regrets the lack of experience. Otherwise, things seem normal and above average.

so what’s the problem? Let her go explore and experiment - doesn’t mean you have to be involved, just there for support.

Why would any spouse support that? You want your husband out there exploring and experimenting with other men? Oh it’s okay because she is a woman and we should not apply the same standards.

NP here, I would be totally ok with my wife experimenting. In fact, besides the potential for a threesome, two women together is simply hot for most men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW has realized she like women too, after 15 years of marriage. She regrets the lack of experience. Otherwise, things seem normal and above average.

so what’s the problem? Let her go explore and experiment - doesn’t mean you have to be involved, just there for support.

Why would any spouse support that? You want your husband out there exploring and experimenting with other men? Oh it’s okay because she is a woman and we should not apply the same standards.

NP here, I would be totally ok with my wife experimenting. In fact, besides the potential for a threesome, two women together is simply hot for most men.

You would be totally ok with it because in your mind, your wife is making out with another woman in front of you for your viewing pleasure. Most gay women don't want a man in the bedroom and don't care what they look like to you. They also want to have sex with each other, not with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW has realized she like women too, after 15 years of marriage. She regrets the lack of experience. Otherwise, things seem normal and above average.

so what’s the problem? Let her go explore and experiment - doesn’t mean you have to be involved, just there for support.

Why would any spouse support that? You want your husband out there exploring and experimenting with other men? Oh it’s okay because she is a woman and we should not apply the same standards.

NP here, I would be totally ok with my wife experimenting. In fact, besides the potential for a threesome, two women together is simply hot for most men.

From one man to another, you are a typical idiot man. The "potential for a threesome" is nearly zero. The potential for you even witnessing them together is also nearly zero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW has realized she like women too, after 15 years of marriage. She regrets the lack of experience. Otherwise, things seem normal and above average.

so what’s the problem? Let her go explore and experiment - doesn’t mean you have to be involved, just there for support.

Why would any spouse support that? You want your husband out there exploring and experimenting with other men? Oh it’s okay because she is a woman and we should not apply the same standards.

NP here, I would be totally ok with my wife experimenting. In fact, besides the potential for a threesome, two women together is simply hot for most men.

Ok then go let her Experiment with two men At a time.

[Anonymous]

I’m happily married to a very passible MTF, that has not had SRS and no plans to...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well...both of us snack in bed. Each morning we carry down plates, cups and spoons that have been amassed from the previous night in our bedroom. We pretend that we are strict about meals and eat together as a family...but in reality we all are eating in front of the TV.

We never have family meals. I feel guilty about it but not guilty enough to change our laid back eating schedule.

[Anonymous]

I actually like my DH more when he is a bit chubby and has a dad-bod. This way he does not catch the eyes of homewreckers even though he is a high earner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m happily married to a very passible MTF, that has not had SRS and no plans to...

What is MTF and what is SRS

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m happily married to a very passible MTF, that has not had SRS and no plans to...

Rock on!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m happily married to a very passible MTF, that has not had SRS and no plans to...

Good for you... And her!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You would be totally ok with it because in your mind, your wife is making out with another woman in front of you for your viewing pleasure. Most gay women don't want a man in the bedroom and don't care what they look like to you. They also want to have sex with each other, not with you.

you’re making zero sense and you’re bending the original post into something purely to fit your point.

grow up, seriously.

[Anonymous]

DW Comes across as a beautiful, energetic perky blonde in public. At home she is an anxious-dismissive basket case. No one knows the stuff I go through.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW Comes across as a beautiful, energetic perky blonde in public. At home she is an anxious-dismissive basket case. No one knows the stuff I go through.

If it makes you feel any better, we know she's a basket case. We can have a coffee or a drink with her but no one's going home with her but you. There's a million like her at my kid's school.

Seriously, get her in therapy. She'll thank you later (as will your kids).