Wrecked over goddaughters pregnancy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So she’s an adult who wants to keep her baby. Instead of trying to convince her to abort, how about you be supportive of what could possibly be the biggest decision of her life? It needs to be her choice not yours. She will hate you the rest of her life if you talk her into doing something she doesn’t want to do.

NP-Sorry, but what she "wants" to do is pretty far down on the list of things to consider.

Her body, her choice.

Are you advocating for someone other than the mother to decide when an abortion is appropriate or not?

No, but I'm also not willing to just accept that an immature addict has the skills to make a decision without pointing out to her that she's no longer the most important part of the equation and that she needs to make a realistic plan.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would make an appointment at your local Planned Parenthood and personally attend the appointment w/her.

This baby will have an awful upbringing if she decides to keep it.

No Father, an addicted Mother, life in the projects, etc.
Will probably be raised on welfare/food stamps/Medicaid, etc.

OP already stated that the goddaughter decided to keep the baby. Is ‘my body, my choice’ true only when a woman is choosing what we think is the best for her? Are you really advocating for a forced abortion?

According to OP the kid attended a posh private school. Op didn’t say but did the deceased parents leave a trust in the child’s name? Presumably she gets survivor benefits and is of good intelligence.