Um, I don't want to spend 14 hours flying to China and lose days of vacation time. I'd much rather to a van trip in Colorado and New Mexico. Plus, as has been mentioned ad nauseum, people with kids can't just up and take the cheap flight to China. They have to plan ahead on school breaks. |
Ok, what kind of 2-bedroom accommodations can I rent in Paris for $100-$150/night? |
And that’s the disconnect. You see traveling as a vacation (entertainment and relaxation) as opposed to experiencing a new culture. I agree that the Maya Riviera is not the best place to do that. |
Montego Bay? Seriously? You’ve to be kidding me. |
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We previously traveled to other countries (Europe,Canada) until we moved to DC. Could either travel or buy a house, bought a house instead. We eventually plan to renew the passports.
Most of my family can't afford to travel very far even in the US,much less overseas. They are paying off student loans, and car payments and houses. At best, they may go off season for a weekend to the beach or a state park. |
What disconnect? I don't have the money or time or family structure right now to make every vacation about "experiencing a new culture." Plus, you're fooling yourself that "experiencing a new culture" for a week or two is anything but vacationing. It's a vacation. Not a moral exercise. Get over yourself. |
PP is virtuously "experiencing a new culture" while flying from Phoenix to Montego Bay, whilst us unenlightened plebes are slumming it domestically. |
Why not? Don’t like your husband much? |
This is the life of most middle class Americans these days. |
Im married to a woman, not a man. We wouldn't feel comfortable leaving our kid with a stranger, and grandparents aren't in area. Actually even if they were local, one grandparent is too old, and the other two are too Christian so bad influences. So we wouldn't feel comfortable leaving child with them either. |
Plus, vacation is the only chance I get to spend uninterrupted time with my kid, and enjoy a new place and new activities with him! If I had 2 more weeks of paid vacation or was a SAHM, sure, I'd vacation alone with DH too. But that's not our life. |
It can be difficult to get a tourist visa to china if you're not on an approved tour with gov't approved guides. You can't just fly to China and bum around. Now, Thailand ... |
Sorry, but this is 100% untrue. Please don’t spread false information. |
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You can absolutely experience a different culture within the US, because we're such a melting pot. I live in San Francisco, and going just from deep in Chinatown to the Mission to the Dogpatch to Pac Heights will expose me to different cultures.
Going from a super WASPy church in New England to a Baptist church in the deep South would expose me to different cultures. Hell, in my very own apartment building, the Hispanic men stand aside for women, or reach out to help carry heavy things up the staircases, while the Asian men push ahead. Two different cultures right there. |
Haha. Wow. Yup- I have lovely stories to tell my friends and family about safaris and winelands in South Africa, Carnival in Brazil, gauchos in Argentina, etc. Total shitholes and horrible experiences! |