Women are "Damaged Goods" after 30..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know anyone who met their SO past 30.

Pretty much all of my friends met and got married in their early to mid-30s. Pretty typical.

Iwas the anomaly for marrying my college boyfriend when I was 24.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Aaron Rodgers traded in some actress gf in her mid/late 30s for a Harvard soccer player who is 24

Ronaldo is with a 23 year old

Jeter married his wife when she was 24

Men who have the ability to do so will target the 18-26 set

We are talking about elite professional athletes here. Not the average DCUM schmuck.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is strange. As a married woman, I can assure you marriage and men in general are overrated. If my husband dropped dead tomorrow I would enjoy the life insurance payout and never entertain marriage ever again. Most men are terrible in bed so not sure I'd entertain sex either unless I found a unicorn man. While men tend to live their entire lives focused on sex and female approval, most women do not. Many of us really just don't.l care.

This is why I got divorced. When I die, I want my money to go to someone who loves me.

+1

True, but seriously, consider what a sad and pathetic life she leads...what a thing to announce with such matter-of-fact resignation.

Agreed! What is more is why she would not leave her husband and just move on with her life.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know anyone who met their SO past 30.

Pretty much all of my friends met and got married in their early to mid-30s. Pretty typical.

Iwas the anomaly for marrying my college boyfriend when I was 24.

Not good for kids

[Anonymous]

Looks matter to most men and women are on a downward path in terms of looks after a certain age which compounds their difficulty in finding a suitable guy.

Don't want for this to come across the wrong way but white women show their age sooner than darker skinned women. It is more than likely the effect of the sun but it really takes a toll in terms of how they look older than their age.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Aaron Rodgers traded in some actress gf in her mid/late 30s for a Harvard soccer player who is 24

Ronaldo is with a 23 year old

Jeter married his wife when she was 24

Men who have the ability to do so will target the 18-26 set

We are talking about elite professional athletes here. Not the average DCUM schmuck.

Even still, this is not representative of most men's reality. We all know kids are gorgeous, but most men want a true partner in life, not just arm candy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a 29 year old single woman that is living in the moment. I am advancing my career by going back to school. I've never been one to focus on getting married or having kids by a certain age. Last night I was having a conversation with a couple male friends. One ( engaged guy) told me I should put more focus into finding a husband because most men women single and over 30 as " damaged goods". If they were a catch, they would have already been taken. The other guys agreed, and then said while I am a good catch, men might immediately dismiss me because of my age. I believe it's bs buy curious what other, specifically males, think about their views?

60% of marriages in the developed world are with women over age 29. this is easy to find info.

the thing you should ask your guy friends is why do they chicken out on their smart, beautiful girlfriends in their 20s and then marry whomever they happen to be dating when they magically turn 30. what's up with that? you just tell yourself you're not getting married no matter what and then VIOLA, Oh, I'm 30 now, the boyz told me to get married. TA DAH!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Looks matter to most men and women are on a downward path in terms of looks after a certain age which compounds their difficulty in finding a suitable guy.

Don't want for this to come across the wrong way but white women show their age sooner than darker skinned women. It is more than likely the effect of the sun but it really takes a toll in terms of how they look older than their age.

Whatever. If I am a 40 year old woman dating men of similar ages then age has greeted all of us and is a non-issue. Only youth-obsessed weirdos think in terms of "downward path."

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Looks matter to most men and women are on a downward path in terms of looks after a certain age which compounds their difficulty in finding a suitable guy.

Don't want for this to come across the wrong way but white women show their age sooner than darker skinned women. It is more than likely the effect of the sun but it really takes a toll in terms of how they look older than their age.

Whatever. If I am a 40 year old woman dating men of similar ages then age has greeted all of us and is a non-issue. Only youth-obsessed weirdos think in terms of "downward path."

Seriously.

Plus, if you really feel the need to generalize about all women and tear other people down to make yourself feel better, I’m not so sure how far up the path you were to begin with. There a lot of incredibly sexy over-30 women in terms of both looks and the confidence that comes with life experience. The “men” making these statements about spoiled milk are an actual bunch of losers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I wanted to have kids I wouldn’t look for anyone over 33 unless they hit every other check on the list. Fertility problems are common enough, and adding advanced age into the mix doesn’t help your chances. I get that its 2017, but basic biology hasn’t changed.

I married at 39, had #1 at 40, and expecting #2 at 41. All conceived via "good ole way." There is no such thing as AMA. If you're healthy, you can have children after 40. There are plenty of men to date in your late 30s if you live in the D.C. area. I was never short of suitors at 39.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If I wanted to have kids I wouldn’t look for anyone over 33 unless they hit every other check on the list. Fertility problems are common enough, and adding advanced age into the mix doesn’t help your chances. I get that its 2017, but basic biology hasn’t changed.

I married at 39, had #1 at 40, and expecting #2 at 41. All conceived via "good ole way." There is no such thing as AMA. If you're healthy, you can have children after 40. There are plenty of men to date in your late 30s if you live in the D.C. area. I was never short of suitors at 39.

So stupid. Of course there are plenty of success stories, but ignore basic facts of biology at your own peril.

[Anonymous]

Your men friends are jerks. Women over 30, or any age, are not damaged goods.

Also, please proofread your writing before sending. Men aren't impressed by garbled syntax.

[Anonymous]

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Op I think the bigger problem you'll face as you move single into your thirties is men your age who are damaged goods.

Men age like wine while women age like milk. You're trending downward, we're trending upward and so are our cranks.

OMG, this is such bullshit.
I see more attractive over-50 women than men.
Take your time, op. Sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders. And my mom at 69 had a 29 year old "friend" who was in love with her. Stay away from narrow-minded misogynists and you'll be fine. The PP above probably hasn't experienced the sex drive of a woman in her 30s/40s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Op I think the bigger problem you'll face as you move single into your thirties is men your age who are damaged goods.

Men age like wine while women age like milk. You're trending downward, we're trending upward and so are our cranks.

OMG, this is such bullshit.
I see more attractive over-50 women than men.
Take your time, op. Sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders. And my mom at 69 had a 29 year old "friend" who was in love with her. Stay away from narrow-minded misogynists and you'll be fine. The PP above probably hasn't experienced the sex drive of a woman in her 30s/40s.

Your mom sounds awesome!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Looks matter to most men and women are on a downward path in terms of looks after a certain age which compounds their difficulty in finding a suitable guy.

Don't want for this to come across the wrong way but white women show their age sooner than darker skinned women. It is more than likely the effect of the sun but it really takes a toll in terms of how they look older than their age.

Whatever. If I am a 40 year old woman dating men of similar ages then age has greeted all of us and is a non-issue. Only youth-obsessed weirdos think in terms of "downward path."

Seriously.

Plus, if you really feel the need to generalize about all women and tear other people down to make yourself feel better, I’m not so sure how far up the path you were to begin with. There a lot of incredibly sexy over-30 women in terms of both looks and the confidence that comes with life experience. The “men” making these statements about spoiled milk are an actual bunch of losers.

It's telling how vested someone(s) seem to be in making others feel bad, almost as if they fear the women WON'T feel bad without their help.

-- 47, feeling just fine, thankyouverramuch