Men, do you think your wife is hot?

[Anonymous]

My wife is hot, though not smoking beautiful hot. She is hot because she scores a ten on smarts, compassion, humor, being a mom, being a friend, being a partner and really caring about me and others. She is very pretty on any scale and she is definitely hot in bed. Over time her "hotness" has increased while many who were smoking hot in their twenties have lost their burn.

[Anonymous]

When woman gets fat man leaves

[Anonymous]

My wife can be hot but just doesn't seem to care or try anymore, and just mailing it in in all aspects of life makes her less hot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After kids, your body isn't the same. No matter how skinny you get, you will never be the same. Some women own it, others run to the plastic surgeon.

We can all see your work. Worst are the duck faced women who had too much time on their hands.

The truly beautiful mommas are those who age gracefully.

What does duck face have to do with a mommy makeover.

You're a special kind of stupid.

Oh you know, the ones who've had so much face work they resemble a Thunder Cat. You can't stop staring. You know you shouldn't. They have permanent duck face. Channel the Joan Rivers real housewives at your local club.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is hot, though not smoking beautiful hot. She is hot because she scores a ten on smarts, compassion, humor, being a mom, being a friend, being a partner and really caring about me and others. She is very pretty on any scale and she is definitely hot in bed. Over time her "hotness" has increased while many who were smoking hot in their twenties have lost their burn.

Perfect Hallmark Card.
Wish I wrote it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. If she works at losing some weight then I will. If you want compliments then give me something to compliment

Well aren't you simple and superficial! There's more to compliment a person besides their weight.

And if she loses the goddam weight, she'll get compliments!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is hot, though not smoking beautiful hot. She is hot because she scores a ten on smarts, compassion, humor, being a mom, being a friend, being a partner and really caring about me and others. She is very pretty on any scale and she is definitely hot in bed. Over time her "hotness" has increased while many who were smoking hot in their twenties have lost their burn.

Hoping my DH feels this about me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

does she tell you that you are an asshole?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is hot, though not smoking beautiful hot. She is hot because she scores a ten on smarts, compassion, humor, being a mom, being a friend, being a partner and really caring about me and others. She is very pretty on any scale and she is definitely hot in bed. Over time her "hotness" has increased while many who were smoking hot in their twenties have lost their burn.

This was obviously written by a woman. Nice try though

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife is hot, though not smoking beautiful hot. She is hot because she scores a ten on smarts, compassion, humor, being a mom, being a friend, being a partner and really caring about me and others. She is very pretty on any scale and she is definitely hot in bed. Over time her "hotness" has increased while many who were smoking hot in their twenties have lost their burn.

Hoping my DH feels this about me!

Do you invest the necessary work into staying hot? Ie, do you resemble your self while dating ?
If so, I feel confident that he does feel that about you.

But if you don't do any work to be hot, is it reasonable to expect to bestowed the title of "hot" ... just because you hold the title of "wife" ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife is hot, though not smoking beautiful hot. She is hot because she scores a ten on smarts, compassion, humor, being a mom, being a friend, being a partner and really caring about me and others. She is very pretty on any scale and she is definitely hot in bed. Over time her "hotness" has increased while many who were smoking hot in their twenties have lost their burn.

This was obviously written by a woman. Nice try though

No, written by a man...me. FYI - my DW is in her 60's and a grandmother but she still has it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

does she tell you that you are an asshole?

She probably does, but at least he's not a fat asshole.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

does she tell you that you are an asshole?

That would be downright mean of her, wouldn't it? She isn't mean, she's merely "not hot".
I'd probably not "just keep quiet" if she were being mean to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
This is a beautiful post, and you sound like a wonderful man, and husband. However, you have qualities that PP seems not to possess - empathy, kindness, and a loving nature come to mind. Therefore, it's impossible to expect that he will take anything away from your thoughtful post, though he would do well to.

When I was a teen, my mother taught me that you need to find a partner who you like and share things in common with as well as love. She said that over the course of a long marriage (and my parents will be celebrating their 60th anniversary in June), the love will wax and wain, but if you like your partner and share things in common with them, that liking them and enjoying things you share will carry you through to when the love comes back. Although we've only been married 15 years, I agree with this. I like my wife. We share things in common and although we haven't had too many low points, we have had some and at those points, she's right, our friendship and mutual respect have carried us through until the love returns. She is the only partner I want to spend my life with for many reasons.

That's enough to give me the words to say when she needs a little pick-me-up from me.

Agree about the mutual respect and liking each other but dont shared interests change after 60 yrs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

does she tell you that you are an asshole?

She probably does, but at least he's not a fat asshole.

we don't know this.