Opting out of coast madness to live a low overhead life

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Are any of the posters considering such moves not white? It sounds really idyllic, but hard to imagine for someone who's not white to just up and move in Small Town USA.


The smaller cities mentioned are not Small Town USA. This is the year 2016.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Right, but some of us are from DC! our families and aging parents are here. It makes it very hard to move, even if theoretically we could save a lot of money.


I'm a DC native and love it here. Lots of family, plenty of friends, great job, excellent schools, plenty to do, walkable, and my housing is affordable. I prefer urban living in a liberal city. ?


This sums up why I love living in DC. I also don't think I could find such a deal in housing in any other city where I could earn a comparable salary and also live a similar lifestyle (not dependent on a car).
Anonymous
I can totally understand why you would stay in DC, especially if you have family here.

If you don't have family here and if you could find a comparable job in a smaller city, then I think there is an enticement to leave. It's not for everyone, but for some it is worth thinking about.
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Anonymous wrote:I will do this asap after my big law gig is over. I look at friends in IT, engineering or HR and just don't understand why they stay. The marginally higher income doesn't cover the higher costs.


Jobs. Perhaps not engineering, but other white collar jobs aren't easy to come by in flyover states. Speaking only for myself, I don't stay for the marginally higher income (especially given my income probably isn't even considered marginally higher), but it's very hard to find white collar jobs elsewhere that would pay enough even for the COL in those areas.

While housing costs are lower in other parts of the country, health care, food, cars, those things cost the same. If you own your house outright here, then perhaps you could make it work by selling for a profit and buying a house cheaper in another part of the country. But we have a mortgage here, so if we sold, we aren't at the point (especially with transaction costs and taxes) where we would make enough off the sale to make that work.

Sure, our salary here would qualify for a decent place somewhere else, but we'd be moving. So we'd have to find work somewhere else.

The reason people come to the DC area is that there are a lot of white collar jobs here (due to govt. and the organizations related to govt.) that are difficult to find elsewhere.

I think that a lot of people underestimate how difficult it is to find suitable work in another state or city. I've looked at jobs that utilize my skill set in other regions of the country. They not only are few and far between, but the pay is much lower. And the cheaper COL isn't enough to make that work.

I would love to move down south or out to the southwest, but I'm not sure how to make it happen. I could never live in the midwest because it just gets too cold. I have nothing against the people there or anything, but I can't take hard winters.


No. They don't cost the same. It's crazy.
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