I am a spuse that cheats, Ask me anything.
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Anonymous
| OP, were you posting from somewhere where this can't be traced when your spouse files for divorce? |
Anonymous
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You think your spouse won't find out -- my ex-husband thought the same thing. I only found out through a fluke. He said a lot of the same things -- separate life, on and off like a switch, still loves me.
He lost everything...his wife, his house, and his children. I hope you do too. |
Anonymous
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Do you pay your lover for your meetings with him/her?
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Anonymous
| Even if your spouse never found out, has anyone else ever discovered you, such as your coworkers? |
Anonymous
| He/she still has not definitively answered the question as to whether this is a same-sex affair. |
Anonymous
| where did you find the lover? |
Anonymous
Pretty sure it's a gay affair. By the tone of the thread, I'm thinking it's a woman...but it could also be a man exploring his femininity. |
Anonymous
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How do you handle other people who find out? Do you really never set foot in public with your lover? Even a secluded act of park/car sex could be busted...
I was out with my (married) boyfriend when we ran into colleagues of his, who knew his wife. He endured a lot of teasing the next day at work and finally just played along... Now, we weren't concerned about his wife finding out because she and I are friendly and everyone was willingly involved in the poly relationship....but in your case that could easily be a huge problem that goes deeper than having a shared laugh/joke with your partner over having been "caught." |
Anonymous
| Haven't read all the posts but am wondering, are you married heterosexually but cheating with a same sex partner? |
Anonymous
| That'd be... On the Down Low.. |
Anonymous
| How often do you and your Luvah get together? |
Anonymous
| Does he/she love you long time? |
Anonymous
| After reading all 8 pages it's clear that OP is hiding in the closet, ashamed of asking for a divorce and a coward hiding from their family/friends. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
1. spuse verb: to repetitively make the same typo noun: a repetitively mistyped word Ben spused the word spouse several times today at work. Urban Dictionary |