Jubilee Shalom Duggar's Obituary

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot believe there are people (I assumed most ppl who read this board are educated) who are DEFENDING this crap. What planet are you on? That "obituary" is sick. They have ceased to be parents. They are the Kardashian family with 80s hairdos and tater tot casseroles. They are nothing but whores who are cashing in on their kids and Michelle's uterus. Here's an idea:pay attention to the children you do have. Ick.

I agree.

media whores only

The more I read this forum, the more I realize that one can be degreed out the ass w/o having any common sense.

I agree with y'all, too. It's disgusting.

[Anonymous]

found this: "How horrible seeing the happy family photo with the little kid in front turned around and staring into the (of course open) casket."

from - http://www.gossiprocks.com/forum/latest-gossip/duggars-just-confirmed-20th-child-way-page18-163935.html

have no idea how accurate it is

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is one thing that non-believers will NEVER get. Christians don't see death as am end. It's just a transformation and momentary separation.

There's no place for despair and hopelessness. It's all about the future reunion and hopes on God's promises.

I'm yet to see a grieving Christian in despair. The separation is painful but the console comes in knowing it's only temporary.

Catholics are Christians. In that belief system, there's a heaven, which translates into an afterlife. I've never once been to a funeral where people are smiling.


Below, however, is a VERY different story. creepy

Please tell me that shoebox on the pedestal is not an open casket.

[Anonymous]

Why are the mid size and small boys wearing tuxedos?

[Anonymous]

Amazing what people will do for publicity in America
Crazy
Grieving is one thing, to make a show of it is another

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is one thing that non-believers will NEVER get. Christians don't see death as am end. It's just a transformation and momentary separation.

There's no place for despair and hopelessness. It's all about the future reunion and hopes on God's promises.

I'm yet to see a grieving Christian in despair. The separation is painful but the console comes in knowing it's only temporary.

The kids do not look sad. Kind of creepy
Maybe they feel relieved

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, I came to this thread for advice. I'm preparing an obituary of my own and I'm wondering what names should I give the three fertilized eggs that didnt' take during my last round of IVF?

Couldabeen, Shouldabeen, Wouldabeen. Middle names Hope, Faith, Joy.

+100

Can we be best friends?

[Anonymous]

Ok I don't know how many of you suffered a miscarrage or stillbirth but until you are sitting there with your miscarried child in your hand and trying to figure out what your supposed to do don't think you should judge her I sat with my 10 week miscarried baby in my hands do you think I wanted to flush it down a toilet it was my baby the life that was growing inside me the child that I still think about everyday 5 years later it gets harder as time goes on to loose a child Im sure but let me be one to tell you that when I held my child in my. hands that I can tell you that my heart never hurt so bad And I had never felt such sadness in all my life and then I gott to hear "she had a miscarriage" not she lost her baby it was still a baby to me and still is and because my baby was only 10 weeks along it is supposeto be unnamed and forgotten. My baby wont be forgotten and neither will hers RIP Baby Kyi Jordyn May 3, 2006 <3

[Anonymous]

to make a show of it is something different
they commercialized it

[Anonymous]

such hatred for such a great family..i watched the season finale and cried with her..i know several people who have mourned and buried a miscarried child thats nothing different then doing so with a still born..to miscarry is to expel the fetus or it re absorbs into your body the minute you deliver it becomes a still born. get over yourself ..let ye without sin cast the first stone..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jubilee Shalom?

peaceful rejoicing?

I guess they ran out of "J" names.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:such hatred for such a great family..i watched the season finale and cried with her..i know several people who have mourned and buried a miscarried child thats nothing different then doing so with a still born..to miscarry is to expel the fetus or it re absorbs into your body the minute you deliver it becomes a still born. get over yourself ..let ye without sin cast the first stone..

i watched it last night and i cried too. this is the most evil thread i have ever seen on DCUM.

RIP JUBILEE and all other babies gone too soon. you people have no hearts.

[Anonymous]

I thought the episode that addressed the Duggar's loss was tastefully done. I was worried that it would have an over-the-top pro-life sentiment, and it did not in my opinion.

I did think it was kind of surreal that Michelle and Jim Bob would televise the exact moment when they are told the news that they had miscarried. It seemed really invasive to me. I do not think I could react naturally with cameras in my face. But, this is their life and their reality.

I think they dealt with the miscarriage in a way that was to heal. They wanted to celebrated what they believed was the short life of a child that brought so much joy into the family. I have never thought of this before, but if I were to miscarry, I would also want to deliver the fetus naturally, and memorialize it-- just not on the same scale as the duggars. Nor, would I televise it. Did I think they turned a private moment into ratings and media attention. Yes. But, that is what they do. Par for the course.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:...and for anyone who doubts that this is all about publicity, here's your evidence:

http://dlisted.com/2011/12/14/so-duggars-showed-photos-jubilee-shalom-her-memorial-today

"Sometimes you just have to sit back and type ........ and this is one of those times. Michelle Duggar recently miscarried a 5-month-old fetus she named Jubilee Shalom Duggar (that name, I know...) and the entire family held a memorial for her at their church in Arkansas today. During the memorial, they handed out professionally taken photos of Jubilee's hand and feets with the note "There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world" printed on top. The pictures from the memorial were posted by a family member on Twitter and now they're on TMZ. Yes, we're still living in a world where absolutely nothing is sacred.

The pictures really aren't that graphic and I'm sure you'll see them when TLC airs a 2-hour special about this. I've seen pictures of women holding their dressed up miscarried babies while the entire family is smiling. Some might say it's tacky as hell, some might say it's creepy as hell, but I've always said that you grieve how you grieve and I'll grieve how I grieve. And yes, I grieve by shoving my face into a sheet cake until I'm too bloated to feel emotions anymore. But the thing that really gets me is that church. That's not a church, that's a Las Vegas casino! I know I see Wayne Newton back there. They have fancy ass lights and LED screens and shit. It's like if Jesus was new money. I mean, don't have some homeless people to feed?"

So you mean that some other family member, not the duggars themselves, posted something about this online and now every Hollywood gossip site is writing about it, and so it's the Duggars' fault.

Did you see this comment? LOL!!!

I think she should keep trying, and film every birth. Eventually, her uterus will lurch forth from her body and escape on its own volition.

And get its own TV show.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought the episode that addressed the Duggar's loss was tastefully done. I was worried that it would have an over-the-top pro-life sentiment, and it did not in my opinion.

I did think it was kind of surreal that Michelle and Jim Bob would televise the exact moment when they are told the news that they had miscarried. It seemed really invasive to me. I do not think I could react naturally with cameras in my face. But, this is their life and their reality.

I think they dealt with the miscarriage in a way that was to heal. They wanted to celebrated what they believed was the short life of a child that brought so much joy into the family. I have never thought of this before, but if I were to miscarry, I would also want to deliver the fetus naturally, and memorialize it-- just not on the same scale as the duggars. Nor, would I televise it. Did I think they turned a private moment into ratings and media attention. Yes. But, that is what they do. Par for the course.

This is the life they have *chosen*, the reality they have *chosen*. For cold, hard cash.

[Anonymous]

It is clear that this woman's uterus is too blown out to carry a pregnancy, but not a tv show.