Jubilee Shalom Duggar's Obituary

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would hope that Michelle and Jim Bob see this as a teaching- it is time to treasure and parent the children you have here and now. And be honest as you take inventory. Your youngest children need YOU to be their parents, not your oldest daughters.

I couldn't agree with you this more.

I wrote the same thing in here, but you wrote it much more eloquently than I did. Michelle is doing very little in the way of parenting those children. The older girls are slaves, of sort, having to tend to ALL the needs of the younger children, while Michelle smiles and takes all the credit for "her" hard work, raising 19 children! I really feel for the older girls. The sad thing is, they don't even realize how badly they are being used! They are pretty isolated, with no TV or internet, and only socialize with families that are doing the same thing to their older girls, so they have no way of knowing anything different.

WTH are you talking about? The older girls are going to college! And they do use Internet. I guess you don't really watch the show.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel for anyone who has a miscarriage, no matter what I think of her personally and no matter how many kids she already has, but really, this is over the top fame-mongering.

TONTITOWN — Jubilee Shalom Duggar entered into the presence of Jesus Dec. 2, 2011. She was stillborn at 11:46 p.m. on Dec. 11, 2011, weighing 4 oz. and was 6 cm. in length.

She is survived by her parents, Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar; grandma, Mary Duggar; siblings, Josh, Jana, John, Jill, Jessa, Jinger, Joseph, Josiah, Joy, Jedidiah, Jeremiah, Jason, James, Justin, Jackson, Johannah, Jennifer, Jordyn and Josie; sister-in-love, Anna Duggar; niece, Mackynzie; nephew, Michael; and lots of cousins and extended family members.

She is joined in heaven by both of her maternal grandparents, Garrett and Ethel Ruark; and her paternal grandfather, J.L. Duggar.

The Duggar family is so grateful for the outpouring of love shown to them and they will be celebrating Jubilee’s life in a private memorial service with family and friends. Jubilee will be buried at Fairview Memorial Gardens in Fayetteville.

OP - that was so mean an uncalled for. I guess you either have never lost a loved one, or are a cold human being. For you to think that their obit was over the top is just so wrong in so many ways., I dont watch their show, so its not like Im a Duggar fan but what you said was just nasty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amen! And to those questioning the non-Jews using Hebrew words...Christians have the same history as Jews. Jesus was Jewish!!!

We are Catholic.

Our son attends a Jewish preschool b/c it's a wonderful environment. I have grown up with TONS of Jews; one has been my friend since high school.

Having said that, I would NEVER use Jewish names or words in a serious manner. I may joke with my Jewish friends b/c we have that type of relationship, but I would not choose a Jewish name for my children nor use oy vey when something bugs me.

Let the Jews have their names and Yiddish words.

And get over yourselves. We may share the OT, but the New Testament is ours, as Jesus was a "convert" of sorts.

You must not be from New York. Yiddish words make into regular vocabulary in NY. I grew up using words that I didn't even know were Yiddish.

[Anonymous]

Don't be such an
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Who cares whether it was s miscarriage or stillbirth. She lost her effing baby. Either way the baby is dead. Have some effing compassion

[Anonymous]

Names are crossovers, these days. Just one example but Layla/Laila/Leila, Lela, Lila, you will find of all races.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would hope that Michelle and Jim Bob see this as a teaching- it is time to treasure and parent the children you have here and now. And be honest as you take inventory. Your youngest children need YOU to be their parents, not your oldest daughters.

I couldn't agree with you this more.

I wrote the same thing in here, but you wrote it much more eloquently than I did. Michelle is doing very little in the way of parenting those children. The older girls are slaves, of sort, having to tend to ALL the needs of the younger children, while Michelle smiles and takes all the credit for "her" hard work, raising 19 children! I really feel for the older girls. The sad thing is, they don't even realize how badly they are being used! They are pretty isolated, with no TV or internet, and only socialize with families that are doing the same thing to their older girls, so they have no way of knowing anything different.

WTH are you talking about? The older girls are going to college! And they do use Internet. I guess you don't really watch the show.

The older girls do NOT go to college. Jill is "studying to be a midwife", that's it. They - full-grown adults - use Internet heavily filtered by Bill Gothard's product, characterlink.net.

Bill Gothard runs the cult, um, religious organization the Duggars subscribe to:

http://billgothard.com/about/lifechapters/4/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would hope that Michelle and Jim Bob see this as a teaching- it is time to treasure and parent the children you have here and now. And be honest as you take inventory. Your youngest children need YOU to be their parents, not your oldest daughters.

I couldn't agree with you this more.

I wrote the same thing in here, but you wrote it much more eloquently than I did. Michelle is doing very little in the way of parenting those children. The older girls are slaves, of sort, having to tend to ALL the needs of the younger children, while Michelle smiles and takes all the credit for "her" hard work, raising 19 children! I really feel for the older girls. The sad thing is, they don't even realize how badly they are being used! They are pretty isolated, with no TV or internet, and only socialize with families that are doing the same thing to their older girls, so they have no way of knowing anything different.

WTH are you talking about? The older girls are going to college! And they do use Internet. I guess you don't really watch the show. [/quote

Oh please - college? No.

This about sums up my view:

hopewellmomschoolreborn.blogspot.com/2012/09/fall-2012-open-letter-to-duggars-bates.html

[Anonymous]

I don't get what anyone's problem with it is. You haven't walked in there shoes. I had miscarriages as well.. the difference is it had to be removed by a d&c and I never saw it ...was just left to grieve. She had to deliver this baby, hold it and had to bury it. Therefore a obit is to notify friends and family of the death and services. You didn't pay for it so don't worry about it. And judge not be judged.

[Anonymous]

Face palm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't get what anyone's problem with it is. You haven't walked in there shoes. I had miscarriages as well.. the difference is it had to be removed by a d&c and I never saw it ...was just left to grieve. She had to deliver this baby, hold it and had to bury it. Therefore a obit is to notify friends and family of the death and services. You didn't pay for it so don't worry about it. And judge not be judged.

Hello and welcome, new internet friend!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't get what anyone's problem with it is. You haven't walked in there shoes. I had miscarriages as well.. the difference is it had to be removed by a d&c and I never saw it ...was just left to grieve. She had to deliver this baby, hold it and had to bury it. Therefore a obit is to notify friends and family of the death and services. You didn't pay for it so don't worry about it. And judge not be judged.

Hello and welcome, new internet friend!

+1. Congratulations on discovering the internets today 1956 PP

[Anonymous]

Your dates are wrong. Did you re-print this or make the error yourself?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your dates are wrong. Did you re-print this or make the error yourself?

You're resurrecting this thread, which has to do with the sad death of a baby of a family that DCUM loves to hate on (pathetic in itself) after a year?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What an awful thing to say. Can you explain how else someone is supposed to write an obituary?

You make no sense.

She didn't carry to full term, only to deliver a stillborn. After 20 weeks, it's a stillbirth.

She miscarried. Why would you put in a obit/death notice? My friend miscarried in September. over and done with . . . painful, of course - But there is no need to go this far.

+1

The Duggars have every right to see fit as to what they do!
I agree ALL of these hateful ppl need to get a hobby and not follow the show.

[Anonymous]

Then why revive a year old post?