You are dumb. You know nothing. Stop babbling nonsense. |
+100 |
Yes. I was responding to the other poster who couldn’t imagine how anyone could pick that. We didn’t tour it but my son is going to a school where they would be equally horrified. It’s all about fit. |
| Many people on DCUM are prestige seekers. Kid will have submitted to UVA and higher and lower ranked schools. Get admitted to one or more schools higher ranked than UVA and they decline at UVA. |
You better not venture out to other parts of the country. You’d have a heart attack if you knew how many kids in the US don’t attend the highest ranked college they got into. |
| Has nobody mentioned it’s high school 2.0 for some students? Or some people just want to experience a different part of the country? |
I am a new poster but I totally hear where others are coming from. I can fully understand why a student would pick W&M or VT over UVA, but I am having a really hard time understanding the CNU over UVA decision. Barring a cost factor (not sure if CNU is materially less expensive), 99.9% of people would not choose CNU. I always considered it similar to a community college. The academic experience and outcomes are very different from the other Virginia schools. I do not think this is snobby at all. It is just a realistic assessment of the differences in the quality of the education. |
My old neighbor would make up stories like this and say their child wanted to be a big fish so they could pretend their average children were above average and justify whatever mediocre option their kids had to choose from. Incredibly jealous narcissistic woman in reality who just couldn't accept her offspring was anything but the best and they passed on this view to their children. If they had gotten into UVA, which the mom attended, it would have just been that their child was a big fish. Don't expect all people who go to places like CNU to be more down to earth. |
DP. I have worked for several different universities in Virginia and attended the one in question myself, and I really believe a highly capable and motivated student can get the same quality education at any of them. Better outcomes are often associated with socioeconomic factors that students at UVA arrive with on day one. Some very bright kids just won’t thrive there, though. |
+1 There is nothing magical about UVA or any college. Yes most students would choose UVA over CNU and many UVA kids go on to earn more money. But, that’s not because of UVA. It’s because UVA tends to attract wealthy kids and the kids that are chasing prestige. If an equally motivated kid and wealthy chose CNU the outcomes likely wouldn’t be very different. |
Didn’t answer the question. Dp |
| OOS people might turn down UVA for their own state flagship- cost, specific program, vibe, etc. |
This is a rationalization. |
Your privilege is showing. |
I'm not addressing HS 2.0, but I know several kids from went elsewhere b/c they wanted to experience life outside of this area. One is happy in Athens and another in Ann Arbor. |