My exH is worth over $50m. He was 35 and I was 25 when we got married. At that time I was a beauty with modeling experience, and two grad degrees. He had an Ivy PhD and a great early manager career. Using your own logic, someone like him would marry a woman several steps above his own looks. So I must have been rather attractive. First wives are usually the prettiest all men can get. Yes, in older age they can remarry younger, but usually not prettier. All gorgeous first wives date younger men and remarry only if the man is 2 years over their own age (according to stats). |
| Oh you're the person in their 40s dating 20 somethings. If you were actually pretty you wouldn't be bragging about it on an anonymous board. |
No I’m not that person never said I was dating 20s. I date my age |
It depends. Some unattractive nerdy men upgrade the second time around because they have money to flaunt. |
Your exception is irrelevant in her case. He already had money to flaunt at 35, so he got her, a gorgeous woman. |
| OP, I think you should date men who are your intellectual equal, self-supporting, and who share your interests. You don't need to find a financial partner anymore as much as you need a companion. It's clear from your post that you don't want to be a sugar mamma, which is true for many women, so it just means you need to find men who can afford to split dates with you and, if you get more serious, support themselves in your desired lifestyle. That's all. Focus on physical attraction, shared values, and intellectual compatibility. |
How much are you worth if he's worth $50m? Hope you got a great settlement. |
+1 |
It is his NW now back when we divorced it was lower. I’m at $7m |
That's pretty good in your 40s, especially if you are still working. You are 10 years behind him, so you will be worth 14 - 20m at his age if you let it grow. Wishing you the best! |
Or retire now if not already! A conservative 3% withdrawal rate, which will last in perpetuity, would give her an annual income of $210,000, and she'll have more once she can start drawing Social Security. $210,000 is plenty for a single woman. I'm sure that if he's worth $50m, he can cover any remaining costs for the kids. And PP's situation is so much better than a second wife, who will have to sign a prenup. His best earning years are probably behind him. Heck, his best years are behind him, period. PP got the best of him. Now she can go date hot young guys if that's her fancy. |
Yep. She has options! |
| Time to visit your neurologist. You have posted the same question before. |
I know. I’m semi-retired already |
Lauren Sanchez Bezos has an impressive figure for a 56-year-old accompanied by striking brunette Kardashian looks. FWIW, Mackenzie Bezos took great care of herself and seems humble and philanthropic. Mackenzie reflects well on Jeff Bezos. Elon Musk dated the stunning young actress Amber Heard plus 10 baby-mommas. Hilaria Baldwin is pretty and has a yoga instructor body. Jordan Hudson was a cheerleader and beauty pageant contestant. Saying these women are ugly or even average is just copium. Furthermore, these men might have different tastes and seek other qualities than appearance. |