Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?

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Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands

If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one

I don't think you get it. It is not hard to find a man. The quality is the issue.

I don't think you get it. You can have a high quality man if you are willing to give him what he wants. He doesn't care about your corporate career. That doesn't make you high quality to him. He already has a good career and makes plenty of money so your career adds absolutely nothing to his happiness. Stop trying to tell men what they should value in a woman, it's their decision - not yours.

How would that be a high quality man? I would think that a man who doesn't support my dreams as much as I support his, would be very low quality.

A man who is attractive to other women is "high value." This man has his pick of the litter. He won't choose a woman whose career comes first or even second because he doesn't value it. What you think is irrelevant to what he wants. And, here's the rub, other women want him so he doesn't have to compromise.

This man is from the "pick me" era. This man thinks he deserves the pick of the litter simply because he has a job. This man doesnt even like women, he just wants on demand sex and a maid. Women are not begging to be picked by these men. Women are not pushing each other out of the way to get at men like this.

This man is single. This man is not high value.