SIL not vaccinating baby

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She is not interested in your facts and won't believe them. An intervention won't help. Maybe try the angle of getting her screened for PPD? Perhaps her hormones and brain chemistry are out of whack and that medication will help?

This is so offensive. BIL is making this call too and you aren’t blaming his hormones.

What do you expect the BIL to do? Take the child to get vaccinated in secret? How does that play out? The SIL is singularly responsible because she’s the one preventing it from happening.

That's actually a good idea. I know a dad who did that and mom is none the wiser.

Vaccine record is very clearly displayed in your medical portal/visit summaries so most people would find out that way.

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Of course the mother will find out. Good grief. And a broken or very contentious marriage will have more ill effects on the kid than delaying vaccines.

My guess (especially given the older kids are vaccinated) is the mom is trying to do some sort of method where vaccines are spaced out or delayed. I don’t agree with it, but I remember many of my otherwise “mainstream seeming” friends doing it. My kids are teens so it was awhile ago. I don’t think there are many “vaccines are all poison, and my baby is never getting ANY!!” types running around.

And again- I do not agree with it. Particularly given the only reason parents DO take such a risk is because of the great vaccine coverage from others vaccinating as recommended- which seems lost on them of course.

But it likely is not worth all of this fuss and family drama. Or tossing a marriage out the window. My goodness, people.

OP says that her SIL isn’t planning to get her baby vaccinated at all. There was no discussion of delaying or spacing them out.

And that is what…3rd hand? 4th hand? information via the “IL gossip chain”? 🤣 By the time info travels from a wife to a DH to a MIL!!! (enough said), and then down the grapevine….who knows, LOL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

80% of SIDS cases have been vaccinated in the past week, usually in the past 2 days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

My mistake it’s 75% reported to have been vaccinated within the past week, not 80%. Per vVAERS.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is not interested in your facts and won't believe them. An intervention won't help. Maybe try the angle of getting her screened for PPD? Perhaps her hormones and brain chemistry are out of whack and that medication will help?

This is so offensive. BIL is making this call too and you aren’t blaming his hormones.

What do you expect the BIL to do? Take the child to get vaccinated in secret? How does that play out? The SIL is singularly responsible because she’s the one preventing it from happening.

Take a strong stand?

Do you think a strong stand will change anything? These people are religious zealots, where their religion is being against “chemicals”.

Yes, I think it would change something. It would change him to a parent who is taking ownership vs. being passive/lazy and leaving all decisions to the mother

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

My mistake it’s 75% reported to have been vaccinated within the past week, not 80%. Per vVAERS.

Go ahead and share the citation.

[Anonymous]

Have you read the list of ingredients?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

My mistake it’s 75% reported to have been vaccinated within the past week, not 80%. Per vVAERS.

Go ahead and share the citation.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2214750021001268

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

My mistake it’s 75% reported to have been vaccinated within the past week, not 80%. Per vVAERS.

Go ahead and share the citation.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34258234/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

My mistake it’s 75% reported to have been vaccinated within the past week, not 80%. Per vVAERS.

Go ahead and share the citation.

https://vaccinedeaths.com/2025-05-12-sids-concerns-rising-vaccine-death-link-resurfaces.html

[Anonymous]

My neighbor refuses to vaccinate her 4th and 5th children but vaccinated 1-3. I wonder what happens to people’s brains when they hit kid #4 and 5. Their pediatrician said they wouldn’t see them anymore and now they’re more or less stuck with urgent care for any illness.

I don’t know what they’re going to do when the kids reach school age. But, my kids are older so I’m not worried about it. We can still be friendly even though she’s a bit of a weirdo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My neighbor refuses to vaccinate her 4th and 5th children but vaccinated 1-3. I wonder what happens to people’s brains when they hit kid #4 and 5. Their pediatrician said they wouldn’t see them anymore and now they’re more or less stuck with urgent care for any illness.

I don’t know what they’re going to do when the kids reach school age. But, my kids are older so I’m not worried about it. We can still be friendly even though she’s a bit of a weirdo.

Sounds like you should MYOB.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is not interested in your facts and won't believe them. An intervention won't help. Maybe try the angle of getting her screened for PPD? Perhaps her hormones and brain chemistry are out of whack and that medication will help?

This is so offensive. BIL is making this call too and you aren’t blaming his hormones.

What do you expect the BIL to do? Take the child to get vaccinated in secret? How does that play out? The SIL is singularly responsible because she’s the one preventing it from happening.

Take a strong stand?

Do you think a strong stand will change anything? These people are religious zealots, where their religion is being against “chemicals”.

Yes, I think it would change something. It would change him to a parent who is taking ownership vs. being passive/lazy and leaving all decisions to the mother

LOL. It’s that simple right? You mention it, and BIL just poof! changes his mind and tells his wife is going to be! Easy peasy!

This strategy is very highly likely to get your side of the family iced out of their lives for a long while (and extremely unlikely to get BIL to vaccinate his kid anytime soon)

And I think that not vaccinating their kid is a very poor decision. But it is indeed their decision.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

My mistake it’s 75% reported to have been vaccinated within the past week, not 80%. Per vVAERS.

Go ahead and share the citation.

https://vaccinedeaths.com/2025-05-12-sids-concerns-rising-vaccine-death-link-resurfaces.html

Those are not credible sources.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did your child die from SIDS?


Hers won’t.

No connection between SIDS and vaccines. All bs.

80% of SIDS cases have been vaccinated in the past week, usually in the past 2 days.

That simply because most babies get their vaccines.