Young Parent-Do you pass judgement?

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Anonymous wrote:Schoolmarmish attitudes like those on display here are why the birth rate is crashing and we have to import illegals to keep the economy going. Thanks for destroying America, ladies.

So, we should promote teen pregnancies.

Do us all a favor and look up “logical fallacies” and do some research on why this leap you took is absolutely ridiculous.

(She probably thought this was clever when she posted it. Took a sip of Chablis and chuckled to herself.)

Do me a favor and mow my grass after you clean my toilets.

This is such an incredibly embarrassing response. Wow. You really hit “submit” on this?

What time will you over to do the jobs?

Don’t rile yourself up trying to think of anymore smart responses. It isn’t cute or interesting, and you can’t afford me, anyway. Thanks for the laugh at your expense!

You must be an expert housekeeper, as I suspected since you’re costly. I’ll pay and I’ll laugh at you the whole time.
Thanks for the laugh as you twist yourself into a frenzy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No, public or private. I would not hang out or socialize with OP or want my children to either. It’s the irresponsibility and immaturity of OP that is evident.

This is why we don’t invite you or your kids. Just so you know.

It’s mutual and I decided it. Just so you know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, good for you op for having kids at 15 and 18 and affording private school for your kids by late 20s / early 30s.

Paid for by donations from non teenage parents.

[Anonymous]

Most of the people bashing the OP:
1. Know nothing about the circumstances of her young pregnancy; and 2. Are probably “pro-life”.

Just don’t let that life go to school with my kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was 15 when I had my first and 18 when I had my second. My experience has been that once people see that I'm competent and my kid is just as functional as theirs, they ignore my age.

Well, if your kids follow in your footsteps, you’ll be a grandma within the year so…

So ... what?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well, good for you op for having kids at 15 and 18 and affording private school for your kids by late 20s / early 30s.

Paid for by donations from non teenage parents.

Thank you to all who donate, by the way. I smile each night as I encourage my teens to have unprotected sex so they too can benefit from the generosity of the judgemental elite.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most of the people bashing the OP:
1. Know nothing about the circumstances of her young pregnancy; and 2. Are probably “pro-life”.

Just don’t let that life go to school with my kids.

Circumstances of 2 teen pregnancies?
Promiscuous behavior? No?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well, good for you op for having kids at 15 and 18 and affording private school for your kids by late 20s / early 30s.

Paid for by donations from non teenage parents.

Thank you to all who donate, by the way. I smile each night as I encourage my teens to have unprotected sex so they too can benefit from the generosity of the judgemental elite.

No one believes you disingenuous comment at a failed “gotcha.”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most of the people bashing the OP:
1. Know nothing about the circumstances of her young pregnancy; and 2. Are probably “pro-life”.

Just don’t let that life go to school with my kids.

Circumstances of 2 teen pregnancies?
Promiscuous behavior? No?

OP has one child (I think). The other poster had 2. But yes, I will not make presumptions about the circumstances.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well, good for you op for having kids at 15 and 18 and affording private school for your kids by late 20s / early 30s.

Paid for by donations from non teenage parents.

Thank you to all who donate, by the way. I smile each night as I encourage my teens to have unprotected sex so they too can benefit from the generosity of the judgemental elite.

NP-You think there are no donations to those who can’t afford tuition? If so, you know nothing about privates.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was 15 when I had my first and 18 when I had my second. My experience has been that once people see that I'm competent and my kid is just as functional as theirs, they ignore my age.

Well, if your kids follow in your footsteps, you’ll be a grandma within the year so…

So ... what?

I’m not the one who commented but that is not a so, what situation. Wtf is wrong with you?

[Anonymous]

OP, in my experience as an older mom, it’s the younger moms (not the older ones) who give age much thought. Why would anyone care if you’re young? If you’re a jerk - young or old - I’d definitely care. If I had to race against you at field day, I’d have momentary concern. But otherwise? You do you.

[Anonymous]

OP, when did you have this kid?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, good for you op for having kids at 15 and 18 and affording private school for your kids by late 20s / early 30s.

That wasn’t the op. When did everyone on DCUM lose their ability to read?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a new private school parent to an HS student and a young parent.

While I try to conceal my age, I can't help but age myself sometimes; I'm typically 10-20 years younger than most parents. In a public school setting it has generally not been an issue, mostly because parents are uninvolved and unseen.

Today I woke up with new found anxiety about my age and how my child would be perceived. The school DS was accepted to is a top school and I want nothing more than for him to be accepted by his peers. I'm worried that the parent community won't truly accept me and in turn it will affect him socially.

Any other young private school parents out there with advice?

I don’t think it will be an issue at all. I find I tend to bond by the age of our kids rather than our age if that makes sense. I can have more in common with a much older or much younger parent with same age kids than someone my age without kids or with kids a different age.

Have confidence and it will be fine!