As someone with older kids who were friends with ATS kids, I can say that this level of parental stress is not helping the kids in the long term. I'm not blaming ATS for its parents or saying that every kid's problem can be traced to their parents, but maybe parents who are obsessed with ATS and other highly structured schools could take a minute and reflect (if you're in ATS and your kid is happy, please move on because I'm not here to destroy anyone's joy): What do you define as "success"? Sixth-grade test scores? What's your definition of "high academic and behavioral standards"? What other achievements matter to you? Do you have evidence that any of this will matter by the time your kid graduates from high school? What are you teaching your kid about your family's values and expectations? How much do you know about child development and education? What was your own experience with school? How do you think it influenced who you are today? What do you know about the school experience of people you admire? Do you attribute all that to their elementary school? |
Now compare ATS to Carlin Springs, Barcroft, Randolph, Drew. |
And parents trust pediatricians for medical advice. But any decent parent knows to trust their gut and get a second opinion when their concerns are brushed off and they know something’s wrong. Maybe this is a wake up call. No, you can’t solely rely on someone else to teach your kids. |
They claim ATS' success is 90% due to the self-selection by parents. That makes the parents responsible for the success. I fully agree that APS should be making all of our ES more like ATS. But I'm tired of people crediting the bulk of its success on parents' selection. ATS works well for most students. Period. Not because their parents chose the program. |
Elementary school is important. Not learning to read well has catastrophic effects later in life. If a kid isn’t reading well by 4th grade, it’s hard to keep up with their peers. I don’t blame parents for being angry. I think the whole community should be angry. Tons of tax dollars and a lot of kids with terrible reading skills. |
More notably, ;just because you're poor doesn't mean you're NOT involved. Enough with this stuff. Schools can't control what the parents are going to do or are able to do. Let's focus on what schools can do regardless of the parents - because kids can succeed, period. |
OK. So let's make ATS employ the same rules and policies and curriculum and instructional methods as any other neighborhood school, especially like our "worst performing" ones. There should be absolutely no difference in outcomes at ATS, then, right? Cause the smart parents picking it is the only possible answer for its success. |
Does ATS have kids with a lot of unexcused absences? Does ATS have parents who don’t EVER show up to parent-teacher conferences? When a child is combative at ATS, what happens when that child’s parents shrug their shoulders? |
THIS! This is another distinguishing factor of ATS. They don't "wait and see." They note issues right away. And "making progress" to them isn't sufficient. Making the right amount of progress is what matters. "Making progress" does not mean there isn't an issue. |
No one’s saying poor parents can’t be involved. ATS has low SES families that thrive. (And FWIW, not everyone at TJHSST is wealthy either.) |
Agree. We shouldn't be waiting until 4th grade to determine kids can't read and it's a problem. |
Someone earlier said raise standards and expectations and let the chips fall where they may. They used to do that, and it didn’t look so good when you compared different demographics. |
But nobody bothers to point it out or acknowledge it much. It's far too common to refer to the lower achieving students' parents because they aren't able to provide the support and engagement. I'm just reminding people that a lot of lower income parents are highly involved in their kids' education. Yet, there are still those gaps, yes? |
If your kid is enrolled in any Arlington County elementary school and you are on this thread, your kid is going to be just fine. End of story. |
REALITY CHECK! YOU are your child’s first teacher. YOU are their best advocate. If YOU knew (because you clearly state you did) your child was struggling, it was up to YOU to trust your gut and find another solution. Remote learning failed tons of kids. And so did Lucy Calkins. Many parents sought outside tutoring, and a lot who couldn’t afford it researched homeschooling curricula and did remediation themselves. If you are blown off by your child’s doctor, do you just follow their advice and “wait and see” when your kid is clearly dying? OF COURSE NOT. I get the frustration with APS, I really do. But at some point you have to realize you’re the one in charge. |