| The solution, obviously, is to apply to even more colleges. And make the problem worse. |
This is so true. My friend was really mad/frustrated that her kid (3.0 -- FCPS) did not get into VT or JMU (non-stem). Kid/parents were not willing to consider GMU, UMW, VCU, Rad, or anything else in VA. So, they, like many others, ended up at WVU. The big-rah-rah U atmosphere was really important to them ... more than the academics or financial side of it. To be fair, I think a lot of other states have big-rah-rah-Universities that pretty much anyone with a 3.0 and above can go to. In the case of VA, that would be GMU and VCU --- it's just that GMU doesn't have a football team or college-town aspect to it. And VCU doesn't have that dedicated sense of location/college town. So, I do understand why people really want their kids to go to UVA, VT, and JMU. But, a 3.0 isn't going to cut it... and it's crazy when parents think it should be a legit option. |
FWIW, ODU has a football team...that has beaten VT several times
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I wish I had studied these Virginia schools when our kids were little and invested in prepaid tuition.
We toured VCU, JMU, VT, UVA, W&M, CNU, GMU, and UMW. Each one had great things about them. We told our kids that they will be going instate only. So our kids are in 2 of these schools. We have amazing options here in Virginia. |
Just have to be realistic about what schools your kid can get into, right? FWIW, there are plenty of schools out there that aren't actually that crazy expensive even OOS. Many offer merit, like WVU and Bama. Do your research. Maybe consider starting at the community college. Plenty of kids do. Just don't complain that there aren't spots for your kids. There are - you just don't deem the schools with spots acceptable to you. |
Twice, to be exact: 2018 & 2022. |
This. I have two students at WVU, and with the scholarships WVU offered, paid slightly less than what we would have paid to send them to the schools you mention (GMU, VCU, etc.) Two of my kids also were given excellent scholarships at Alabama which would have made tuition less than those schools. Why should we pay MORE to go to a school that is less of a good fit, just so they can be "in state?" |
And Bland Xollege, the 2 year school in that is the equivalent of UVA Wise for WM. Although they have started the process to separate, I believe. |
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I have a friend who was genuinely shocked that her son was not admitted to VT Engineering. White male at a top 5 FCPS school, with great SATs, but a 3.9W after junior year. He has been admitted to a couple of safeties, but they feel confident he will get into one of his outstanding schools (EA deferral or RD): CMU, UVA, GT or UC Davis (this was a few weeks ago, some may be out by now).
Highly educated seeming savvy parents. But, there is clearly some denial going on. You have to base a college list on the kid you have, not the kid you wish you had. The family eliminated GMU, JMU, Pitt, Ohio State, Penn State, Purdue, etc as not prestigious enough. |
Yikes! Someone has not been reading the naviance charts or getting good advice from HS counselor if they thought a 3.9W should scoff at the schools listed in the last sentence! |
I live in an area you would scoff at as a "toothless redneck" area. Our oldest's grad class last year had plenty of graduates going to UVA, VT, W&M, JMU, VCU, etc. Others went out of state to NYU, U of Chicago and other big-city schools. With scholarships. Our kid got all the same college postcards your kids did. Education is the ticket to the bright lights, big city for a kid when you come from a small town or more rural place. The kids out here are working their tails off, and they're smart, with good manners. We moved here from NOVA. We have plenty of helicopter mothers here too, taking their HS students to SAT prep and to weekend robot design championships. Also remember that the governor's schools like TJ are all over Virginia, they are all over the state. Class sizes are smaller out here, and -- here's the kicker -- teaching is still a highly-valued profession. Teachers are respected as a pillar of the community. The teachers works with the parents. That is a huge thing. |
Quota is the big deal there. They have a cap on number of students from “the great state of Northern VA” as they called it back when I was applying. It’s the big fish in a little pond that helps the more remote areas of VA. |
DP. There are lots of areas south of NOVA that are anything but remote. I get it, I was raised in NOVA to think we were the only place on earth that mattered, or at least the only place in Virginia. And then I got to college and was struck by how much more interesting and real kids from other places were. |
As I said, research
You don’t have to stay in state. There are options. Fwiw, Radford and ODU are possibilities for our child…as is Slippery Rock in PA and Northern Michigan. Due to a new major, we might be adding SUNY-Fredonia. We also considered Stockton (NJ), UNC-Greensboro, WI-Stevens Point, Rhode Island College, Bridgewater State (MA), Akron (OH), SEMO and Illinois State. (No, my kid doesn’t have a shot in hell at the top tier VA schools) |
Richmond, Norfolk/VA Beach area, Charlottesville are other bigger areas. |