Your mom told me |
Sure, I'm the one who posted it FYI...me and my husband both attended a T10 school that practices legacy. Both of our kids applied and got into our alma mater. Don't get me wrong, they had good stats (~3.8-3.9's from Sidwell and >1500 SAT's), but legacy probably helped them get in. Several of our kids friends who went to top schools had parents who went there. Although, Sidwell has a lot more humanities focused kids, and as a result, they consider a different set of schools that TJ kids consider. For example, Georgia Tech, a very very good school for Computer Science, has little to no interest at Sidwell. At TJ, GT may be viewed more prestigiously than Georgetown, but its the exact opposite at Sidwell. One more thing, with the exception of UVA, there aren't too many families at Sidwell who are looking to go to a public school. They mainly want to go to private schools. So this is another reason why the results are different. So basically, if we're looking at national prestige, Sidwell is better, if we're looking at prestige for CS, TJ is better. But at the end of the day, kids from both schools who work hard WILL be successful |
TJ is the #1 public school. Sidwell isn't a public school, so Sidwell doesn't fall into those rankings. Furthermore, most kids at Sidwell are not planning on studying STEM fields. TJ is probably better than Sidwell for STEM, but overall, Sidwell is a much more well-rounded school. |
I don’t understand why you want college to be easier than high school. What is the point of that. Developmentally you are more mature in college than in HS. There is a reason academics progress in depth and complexity moving through K-12 and then post secondary. |
What about social emotional development? I worry about that with TJ kids.
Academic skills only get you so far in life. Hanging out with friends and doing random stuff in HS is important because it helps you develop key life skills and also is important for general happiness. As you get older, once you have a base level of knowledge and competency, it is life skills (leadership, creativity, interpersonal intelligence) that propel future job success and general happiness. Look at the studies done on high school valedictorians. Their star often shines brightest in high school. They often lose their edge when it comes to navigating life’s complexities |
sidwell families don’t want to go to public schools like UCB or UCLA or UMich? Or do you mean MD/VA public schools, except UVA? |
if it comes down to a public and private school of similar prestige, MOST choose private |
There are more than UVA on this list with 4+ . UCLA, UMD, Michigan, W&M, UNC. . . https://www.sidwell.edu/academics/college-counseling/college-matriculation |
Yes, but all that means is that at least 1 person went a year. UVA is the most popular public school at Sidwell |
This is combined list of colleges from 2018 - 2022 where Sidwell students matriculated. It is not possible to make a claim of any sort to say they have better placement than any school let alone TJ. Most of TJ's unofficial yearly matriculation data is publicly available. The only way one can compare and say that either TJ or Sidwell had a better year if they have Sidwell's data for a given year. |
All we know from the data is UVA averaged 1 per year as well. |
Even more impressive since there are many donut hole families at TJ who reject top 20 schools for merit scholarship money from schools outside of top 20 or go into guaranteed UG/medical schools. I know of a TJ grad who went to W&M instead of Cambridge and another who went to UVA instead of Harvard etc. |
Connections formed at TJ is more important than getting into top 25 colleges. |
Would be more impressive if top universities stopped discriminating against Asian American applicants. |
TJ is No. 1 high school in the country and VT is probably ranked No.40-50 in the country. |