Why are older men attracted to very young women when they are older?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Younger women are prettier, have better bodies, and most important, they have better personalities. I'm a 56 year old man dating a 27 year old.

You’re dating someone 30 yrs younger than you. Yes, I know you have sex; it’s great. But what else do you do together outside of the house? What do you talk about? Do you have any kids and if so, how old are they? How long have you been dating her? Have you met any of her friends or her parents?

She's amazingly intelligent. Finishing a PhD in science. We talk about everything, and lose track of the time. She grew up respecting her father so she appreciates my wisdom and life experience. We have had many dates outside the house and a short road trip. We will go for longer trips once school is out. We also enjoy cooking together. I have late-teens kids. She had met one of my kids and that went well. I'll meet her parents soon.

OMG this is a train wreck waiting to happen. She will grow to absolutely hate and despise you and your late-teen kids. Her parents will hate you even more. Ask me how I know. And your age gap is much bigger.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Younger women are prettier, have better bodies, and most important, they have better personalities. I'm a 56 year old man dating a 27 year old.

You’re dating someone 30 yrs younger than you. Yes, I know you have sex; it’s great. But what else do you do together outside of the house? What do you talk about? Do you have any kids and if so, how old are they? How long have you been dating her? Have you met any of her friends or her parents?

She's amazingly intelligent. Finishing a PhD in science. We talk about everything, and lose track of the time. She grew up respecting her father so she appreciates my wisdom and life experience. We have had many dates outside the house and a short road trip. We will go for longer trips once school is out. We also enjoy cooking together. I have late-teens kids. She had met one of my kids and that went well. I'll meet her parents soon.

Is her ethnicity different from yours?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is her ethnicity different from yours?

Tina Fey-is that you? Well..point still holds.

[Anonymous]

Daddy issues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Younger women are prettier, have better bodies, and most important, they have better personalities. I'm a 56 year old man dating a 27 year old.

You’re dating someone 30 yrs younger than you. Yes, I know you have sex; it’s great. But what else do you do together outside of the house? What do you talk about? Do you have any kids and if so, how old are they? How long have you been dating her? Have you met any of her friends or her parents?

She's amazingly intelligent. Finishing a PhD in science. We talk about everything, and lose track of the time. She grew up respecting her father so she appreciates my wisdom and life experience. We have had many dates outside the house and a short road trip. We will go for longer trips once school is out. We also enjoy cooking together. I have late-teens kids. She had met one of my kids and that went well. I'll meet her parents soon.

Is her ethnicity different from yours?

+1


BINGO. This last line is on the money (see what I did there).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is such a silly thread. I know that DCUM women think they're special and that having babies in your 40s is the norm, but from a strictly biological standpoint women are most fertile 20 years earlier than that. And that, alone, explains why men are more attracted to them. While many men don't act on the attraction and stay with women their own age, that doesn't change the attraction itself.

But often these men don't even want their own kids with the woman they had sex with in their 20's and 30's. So what's the draw for 50-60 year old divorced man to a 20 year old? I can find a 20 year old man to be attractive/hot and also not feel any emotional/romantic connection to him. I don't want to party with him or hang out with younger people all day. Or have pressure to have a child in my 40's or adopt in my 50's. None of the lifestyle is attractive. Some of these older men marry these 25 year olds.

As someone else said, it's evolutionary. It's not something that you need to think about. I don't know why simple biology is so hard for people on DCUM to understand. It's been explained like two or three times in this thread alone. Do you understand that evolution is the process of adapting for survival over many different environments over a loooooong period of time? Young women are attractive because they can have babies easily and this promotes survival of the species. Men can have kids easily at pretty much any age. The end.

Why are you so triggered? Women age and cannot be alone. Do you not understand that women and children need protection and money throughout their lifetime? It's not all about you on this planet.

But that's a different issue. This poster isn't "triggered." She's giving a rational and obvious answer.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Younger women are prettier, have better bodies, and most important, they have better personalities. I'm a 56 year old man dating a 27 year old.

You’re dating someone 30 yrs younger than you. Yes, I know you have sex; it’s great. But what else do you do together outside of the house? What do you talk about? Do you have any kids and if so, how old are they? How long have you been dating her? Have you met any of her friends or her parents?

She's amazingly intelligent. Finishing a PhD in science. We talk about everything, and lose track of the time. She grew up respecting her father so she appreciates my wisdom and life experience. We have had many dates outside the house and a short road trip. We will go for longer trips once school is out. We also enjoy cooking together. I have late-teens kids. She had met one of my kids and that went well. I'll meet her parents soon.

Is her ethnicity different from yours?

Because only ethnic women are intelligent? Women of certain ethnicities suck at STEM?

+1


BINGO. This last line is on the money (see what I did there).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Younger women are prettier, have better bodies, and most important, they have better personalities. I'm a 56 year old man dating a 27 year old.

You’re dating someone 30 yrs younger than you. Yes, I know you have sex; it’s great. But what else do you do together outside of the house? What do you talk about? Do you have any kids and if so, how old are they? How long have you been dating her? Have you met any of her friends or her parents?

She's amazingly intelligent. Finishing a PhD in science. We talk about everything, and lose track of the time. She grew up respecting her father so she appreciates my wisdom and life experience. We have had many dates outside the house and a short road trip. We will go for longer trips once school is out. We also enjoy cooking together. I have late-teens kids. She had met one of my kids and that went well. I'll meet her parents soon.

OMG this is a train wreck waiting to happen. She will grow to absolutely hate and despise you and your late-teen kids. Her parents will hate you even more. Ask me how I know. And your age gap is much bigger.

Eh. A friend of mine met her husband when she was 18 and he was 42. They have two beautiful kids. They've had their share of ups and downs for sure but she's in her mid 40s now and they are still going strong.

[Anonymous]

It’s pure ego. That’s all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Because young women are hotter and more fertile than older women. End of thread.

I love one of the prior posts that said "because men fear getting older." LMAO what a projection. Do women really not realize that guys don't care about getting older?! I literally have never thought about it

Liar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here in his 40s. I've dated many women in their 20s. Younger women, on average, are more attractive than older women.

The ones I've dated have been adventurous, inquisitive, and fun. When we're out and I suggest going to try something new, they're open to it. Or at least the ones I date. It's a breath of fresh air compared to women in their 30s and 40s who are more set in their ways.

What do these younger women see in me? I have all my hair, I'm in decent shape, and I'm a successful entrpreneur. I think the qualities that are typical with entrepreneurs -- adventure and risk-taking -- are also attractive to women. I'm sure it helps I have money too -- I've heard stories how they have dates guys their age and the guys are immature and also can't afford to take them out. I can sympathize -- I was that way in my 20s too.

"I'm sure it helps I have money too." Ha! You can delete the rest of the things from your list. No hot 20-something is with because you "have all your hair" (so do younger guys) or for your entrepreneurial spirit. Delusional.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Younger women are prettier, have better bodies, and most important, they have better personalities. I'm a 56 year old man dating a 27 year old.

You’re dating someone 30 yrs younger than you. Yes, I know you have sex; it’s great. But what else do you do together outside of the house? What do you talk about? Do you have any kids and if so, how old are they? How long have you been dating her? Have you met any of her friends or her parents?

She's amazingly intelligent. Finishing a PhD in science. We talk about everything, and lose track of the time. She grew up respecting her father so she appreciates my wisdom and life experience. We have had many dates outside the house and a short road trip. We will go for longer trips once school is out. We also enjoy cooking together. I have late-teens kids. She had met one of my kids and that went well. I'll meet her parents soon.

Vomit.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is her ethnicity different from yours?

Tina Fey-is that you? Well..point still holds.

So the answer is yes then. Got it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One word: tightness

Eeny weeny teeny weeny shriveled little short d*** man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Younger women are prettier, have better bodies, and most important, they have better personalities. I'm a 56 year old man dating a 27 year old.

You’re dating someone 30 yrs younger than you. Yes, I know you have sex; it’s great. But what else do you do together outside of the house? What do you talk about? Do you have any kids and if so, how old are they? How long have you been dating her? Have you met any of her friends or her parents?

She's amazingly intelligent. Finishing a PhD in science. We talk about everything, and lose track of the time. She grew up respecting her father so she appreciates my wisdom and life experience. We have had many dates outside the house and a short road trip. We will go for longer trips once school is out. We also enjoy cooking together. I have late-teens kids. She had met one of my kids and that went well. I'll meet her parents soon.

Vomit.

In other words, she has daddy issues. Double vomit.

When I was 27 I would have gagged at the thought of dating someone older than my father. Any woman in her 20s who is serious about a guy in his late 50s is dealing with some messed up s**t.