Would you marry a man with no money?
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Anonymous
| Would you marry a man who was wonderful, but very low earning, with little possibility of change? |
Anonymous
| What do you considering low earning? And what is your salary and potential? |
Anonymous
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No absolutely not
Never You’ll be miserable And you’ll always be the bread winner, you’ll hold resentment for that exact reason and always fee superior to that person. No |
Anonymous
| Only if I was independently wealthy. I don't care who has the money, but it has to come from somewhere. |
Anonymous
| If he was hard working and self sufficient, I'd consider it. I am not well off but I pay my own bills. |
Anonymous
He makes $60k, I make $150k. He also has a lot of bills. Other than this he really great and treats me wonderfully. |
Anonymous
| Depends. Can i make enough for everyone and he will controvute to the household in other ways? |
Anonymous
Its not the $60k. Its tbe lots of bills issue. |
Anonymous
| If he's the type to be a great stay-at-home father, perhaps. |
Anonymous
Absolutely if he'd ACTUALLY make an amazing sahd. Not a sperm donor who sucks at bread winning and really sucks with kids, but being bad at his job is sufficient to delude himself that he'd make a good dad. |
Anonymous
| No, but I know myself well enough to know that I would resent a low earner. I have friends who are the female breadwinners in their marriage and they're very happy. I dated a low earner once who I think viewed me as his meal ticket because I'm a relatively high earner and my family has money, and I lost respect for him quickly. DH and I have a similar work ethic. He makes more than I do, and I respect him. |
Anonymous
| Nope. But a good deal of that probably has to do with me being a guy and not gay. |
Anonymous
| 1 thing to consider, is it possible he may have a second or 3rd job, maybe in the high flying Technology Sector or some such and has been squirreling away money for Years? Is he the inventor type or maybe someone who is very good at a variety of Computer wizardry that involves a large amount of information? |
Anonymous
| No. Having a family is very expensive. |
Anonymous
Like he spends too much money? |