Poll: Right this moment, would you leave your fully-accessible phone for your SO for an entire day?

Anonymous
Yes, or no?

What's something you'd worry about them seeing?
Anonymous
Yes I would.

The worst thing he could see is me complaining to my sister or best friend about his mom over text. I do try to delete those messages sometimes because I am venting and I realize they could be hurtful to him if he ever saw. But he is also well aware of how difficult his mom is, so he wouldn't be totally shocked.

But there's nothing else I need to hide on there. We've been together for 15 years.
Anonymous
No
Anonymous
Yes, the worst thing on my phone is dcum in the browsing history.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No

Why not?
Anonymous
Sure
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, the worst thing on my phone is dcum in the browsing history.

Anonymous
Yes. But I would be a little embarrassed for him to see my Reddit posts because I know he would think they’re childish.
Anonymous
Yes. No question. But, I'm not shady and I'm not a liar or a cheat. I really don't care what he sees on there. I'm transparent and honest.
Anonymous
Absolutely. I’ve got nothing to hide. Some venting about him would probably be the worst he’d find. Aside from all of my Amazon purchases.

Married 20+ years.
Anonymous
Yes, but only if I will still have a phone because of course I feel naked without my little pocket computer.

I'm sure he'll see some complaints to my best friend about lack of help around the house, or morning grumpiness, but these issues would not be news to him, though I'm sure he'd prefer I not mention it.

And he might be appalled at the time I've wasted here; I certainly am!
Anonymous
Absolutely. Honestly, the only thing I’d be embarrassed about is how much time I spend on DCUM. But I use private browsing so he wouldn’t be able to see that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. I’ve got nothing to hide. Some venting about him would probably be the worst he’d find. Aside from all of my Amazon purchases.

Married 20+ years.

Just curious, who do you vent to?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, the worst thing on my phone is dcum in the browsing history.


Oh, I missed this comment. Yes, same exactly!
Anonymous
Yes except I can't imagine not needing my phone all day. My DH's fingerprint is programmed in. I don't care if he looks and he has never cared to look.
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