Anonymous wrote:Pretty shocked at all of the people saying that the SIL and DH have an inappropriate relationship. I've developed a strong relationship with my DH's whole family, including his brother. I consider him just like I do my biological brothers...a BROTHER. We text, hang out from time to time, and he talks to me about relationship stuff to get a woman's perspective since he and my husband don't have a sister. I would be shocked if his girlfriend not only read an email from me to him, but then considered our relationship inappropriate.
Having a friendship/getting along with a BIL/SIL is a good thing. Involving yourself in their marital issues is intrusive and can actually serve to undermine their marriage.
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