Are all men horndogs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seems like it’s one extreme or the other - either they can’t stop thinking about it or they’re not interested at all.

It just seems that way to their partner when there is a libido disparity.

[Anonymous]

Married 15 years, also 40 with 4 school aged kids. My husband wants it every day but I lean into it and kind of like it. I’m so appreciative he’s taken good care of himself and is so good in bed! I’m so spoiled by him in this way.

I try to do my part by making sure to have lingerie he likes and having fun surprises for him sometimes like a suprise overnight in a hotel or buying a sex toy at the adult toy store and having him go to pick it up on his way home 😂 I want him to know I appreciate him.
I would rather be like this than a crabby old man who never wants it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, also 40 with 4 school aged kids. My husband wants it every day but I lean into it and kind of like it. I’m so appreciative he’s taken good care of himself and is so good in bed! I’m so spoiled by him in this way.

I try to do my part by making sure to have lingerie he likes and having fun surprises for him sometimes like a suprise overnight in a hotel or buying a sex toy at the adult toy store and having him go to pick it up on his way home 😂 I want him to know I appreciate him.
I would rather be like this than a crabby old man who never wants it!

You're so lucky and so is he!

[Anonymous]

Deep down I’m sure he is a horn dog but I’m lucky that I have him on a leash. Twice a week works for me and I’m happy that we are both very happy twice a week. He understands the quality versus quantity thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Happily married 40 year old woman here. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years, we have kids together and a great life. However, he literally wants to have sex every day and when we aren’t having sex I can tell he wants to or is thinking about it. Is this normal? Don’t get me wrong - I love him and all that, but with both of us working from home now for YEARS since the pandemic, I find it annoying. I wouldn’t have to deal with this if I was going into an office. There are so many things on my mind (big and small) and again, we have a good sex life, but are all guys like this? I’m starting to wonder if he needs a hobby or more stress in his life. His job is very low stress.

He wants it every day, but how often is he getting it?

If he never knows when the next meal is coming, he'll always be looking for it.

Does he take care himself sometimes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That’s why I can’t remarry. I just can’t live with someone knowing that that is what they want 24/7. I hate the feeling of being together and knowing that is ALL they are thinking about. I feel like a piece of meat. I used to live sex. Marriage ruined it for me.

Yep same. Would rather have a boyfriend who lives elsewhere so I can have my space/boundaries.

[Anonymous]

Yes but so am I, so it works out

[Anonymous]

Trade ya. Mine has no interest.

[Anonymous]

Yes. l’m so glad my DH works at an office every day. And travels sometimes.

[Anonymous]

My husband was like this but we did it 3-4 times a week. In his mid-50s his libido slowed down to 1-2 times a week. Early 60s now, we do it once a week on a weekend day. That's fine with me; I'm happy to do it less often. It was fine when we were younger but it used to bug me that any hug or kiss I gave him always meant that he wanted sex. On the other hand we have always been sexually compatible and I appreciated that he has always remained attracted to me and I to him. Married 32 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That’s why I can’t remarry. I just can’t live with someone knowing that that is what they want 24/7. I hate the feeling of being together and knowing that is ALL they are thinking about. I feel like a piece of meat. I used to live sex. Marriage ruined it for me.

I’m still married and happily, but it’s hard to face another 30+ years of meeting someone’s sexual needs.

[Anonymous]

That was me at 40

Now at 48, my drive is less. A couple times a week would be fine.

[Anonymous]

No, and I'm kinda jealous, honestly.

[Anonymous]

I wish this was my sex life

[Anonymous]

40 yo female here. I wish I had someone to have s** with everyday. The men I’ve been dating seem to have a low libido in their mid 40s.