TMI: I haven't "gone" in a week, please help!

Anonymous
OP Here:

Well, I talked to my OB again this morning and he said that since the Colace didn't work, we have no choice but to move into laxative/suppository territory. He said Colace won't work if all the new pooh is being blocked by old pooh that has essentially dried out and stopped me up. He said that'll just make me uncomfortable. He actually took this very seriously and is quite concerned, but said there are a few things I can do at home so I can avoid actually going to the hospital to be emptied. He said:

1.) Stop the Colace immediately because it will do nothing to the old pooh and it will make me extremely uncomfortable because it makes the new pooh soft and it WANTS to come out but is being blocked by the old pooh which is acting like a "cork" and stopping me up. This can actually get so bad that the pooh can build up to your stomach and guess what -- you can barf it out. I almost cried when he said that.

2.) The bottom line is that the old pooh needs to come out NOW. I need to loosen and lubricate the old stuff, which is probably dry as a rock and been sitting there for two weeks. He said to make sure NO ONE else is in the bathroom when I go, which doesn't help since I'm at work! Forcing it out dry can cause bleeding or fissures that would send me to an ER. If I went into the ER he said they would make me drink magnesium citrate to turn all new pooh into liquid. It builds up pressure and can help force the old stuff out, but I still need to soften, if not liquify, the old stuff. He said I can expect to spend half the day in the bathroom if I haven't gone in 10+ days.

3.) I must loosen the dry hard stuff that is acting as a cork before anything else. Yes that means a suppository or enema (sometimes 2-3 at a time are needed, and he actually told me to insert two at first). If I do get things moving then I can plan on "going" at least five to seven times a day for the next three days. I can plan on having some pretty severe cramping during the time I empty out. I can't wait!

4.) He said that my peristalsis (waves of the intestines that move your food and waste out) has stopped and when it gets going it will hurt -- bad. He said, "Just don't force it to the point of straining." He said that walking is the best thing I can do to relieve that discomfort. He said to try magnesium citrate liquid or Dulcolax pills. This takes care of the new stool and will liquify all but the hard cork (which apparently can be a foot long or so). He said to get enemas or suppositories for that part. He said that if I take Dulcolax pills then I do not also need to take the suppositories but that the glycerin suppositories will be better for me and will work much faster.

Basically, he ok'd laxatives because he said that this is absolutely an emergency and it's what they'd do in the hospital anyway, regardless of whether or not I was pregnant. He said at 8 weeks it's not a problem and that's it's more of a concern in the third trimester with constant use, not occasional use.

So I went to CVS and bought like $25 worth of all this stuff. I just took two of the Sennoside tablets that should work in 6-12 hours, and I will take a suppository around lunch time and then lock myself in the bathroom at work. God help anyone who follows me in there. I should just lock the door and put a sign on it that reads, "Occupado. Trust me."

He also said not to bother with dietary modifications to get rid of the old pooh, but to start eating more fiber and fruit to keep newer pooh soft. He said to monitor and make sure I am going at least once day. If I don't, and am eating daily, then try to Colace again, but after 10 days you have to break out the big guns.
Anonymous
You're going to do a suppository at WORK? You've waited this long, just wait til you get home.
Or take the day off.
Anonymous
You should take the day off - if you have the sick leave. This would count as a sick day. Good luck. Keep us posted. If you don't go home and do it at work, just remember that pooing is something everyone does and you shouldn't be embarrassed by it!
Anonymous
Glad that you got some clear direction. I know you were reticent to use suppositories and enemas, but that is clearly the direction you needed to take. Many people suggested you get moving on that last night when you were home. Probably would have been easier on you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:after 10 days you have to break out the big guns.


Yeah, we have been telling you that for three days. Good luck.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You're going to do a suppository at WORK? You've waited this long, just wait til you get home.
Or take the day off.


OP Here: I thought aout that. I can't take the day off, but I can probably leave a little early. I think I should take the suppositories at home, too... that way I can avoid a potentially embarrassing situation. I work on a very busy floor that is probably 75% women. I have NEVER been able to use the bathroom in privacy for longer than two minutes unless it was way before or way later than business hours. It's a little slow at lunch time too. I just don't think I want to risk it, so I probably will wait until I get home.

And I agree, everyone craps at work and it's fine, but not everyone takes an explosive heap of a dump that has been building up for amost two weeks. A line has to be drawn somewhere.

Also, some good news: I took those two laxatives this morning and I am starting to feel some "rumblings" down yonder. Still not enough to actually make me go, though. I just feel some of the cramping. It feels like it's in my back, too. Weird. I hope something starts moving soon.
Anonymous
OP, seriously, can you honestly not tell your boss your sick and GO HOME?!?! I bet your doctor would write you a note if it comes to needing that!!!
Anonymous
This has to be a joke.
Anonymous
OP Here: It's not up to my boss; I have meetings that have been scheduled for weeks and I have to be here until at least 3 PM. I normally leave around 4:30-5:00 but I might be able to make an exception today. Besides, it's just an afternoon. I think it'll be okay.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This has to be a joke.



Either that or OP is one really, really, really DENSE woman. I feel sorry for her, really, I do. In fact, I hope that it is a joke.
Anonymous
10:49 here, just in case this is for real I'll share my experience with laxatives. Mine didn't work for 12 hours, and I couldn't get to the bathroom in time. That was after only 3 days of blockage.
You're probably going to need a change of clothes.
Anonymous
If you can't go home, wait on the suppository. It sucks that you have to prolong it that much longer, but if you hadn't been so stubborn and LISTENED to us, well them. . .
Anonymous
I can't imagine that the OP would relish all of this drama around her poo, but it is almost beginning to look that way.

She invited this shit storm.
Anonymous
why would someone think this is a joke? people on pain medications get stopped up for weeks at a time and have to resort to much more invasive measures. in fact, most doctors will prescribe or recommend stool softeners to patients who are on pain meds everyday.

pregnancy has this effect too because of the progesterone in your body. it's more common than you think and it's not easy to deal with, okay. there are a lot of different remedies and there's nothing wrong with weighing your options and asking for advice. god.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:why would someone think this is a joke? people on pain medications get stopped up for weeks at a time and have to resort to much more invasive measures. in fact, most doctors will prescribe or recommend stool softeners to patients who are on pain meds everyday.

pregnancy has this effect too because of the progesterone in your body. it's more common than you think and it's not easy to deal with, okay. there are a lot of different remedies and there's nothing wrong with weighing your options and asking for advice. god.


EVERYBODY who has contributed to this thread agrees with everything you say here. Nobody thinks pregnancy constipation is a joke, or that the OP is joking. It IS something that the OP asked for advice, but didn't seem to take it to heart.
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