Ouch. Would love to adopt. Husband not willin though. |
Adoption cut off is 45 yo. So you are fine. |
Not true. Adoption cut-off is different everywhere. |
Definitely too old. I really wish this trend of 40+ Moms would go away. |
There are some awful people on this thread. |
Why? (honest question... not trying to be snarky) |
How exactly is it selfish? It's no more selfish to want a baby at 40 then it is at 30. And you thinking your older dad was gross sounds like a personal issue. Not all of us have had our lives laid out perfectly like yourself. Sometimes life doesn't happen on the schedule you planned. And to say that you hands down won't be around for your grandkids is stupid. My family members live into their 90's on average. That means if my child has a child at 30 my grandchild would be 20 when I died at 90. I think that's a lot of time to spend with grandchildren (if all goes well). |
Right because it's a "trend". It's the "hip" thing to do |
Exactly. Thank you. |
I haven't ruled out having another at 40-41. Not too old at all. |
No, it's not. I adopted a baby when I was over 45. |
What I wouldn't give to get a glimpse of what these people are like IRL! |
Some sound young and have no idea how their life will turn out. |
Ever occur to you that your mom was deeply depressed and unhappy because she had her kids so late in life and at that time cut off from her friends and relatives whose kids were grown and out of the nest. Do you think she wanted to be at an Elementary school PTA meeting when she was 50 and your dad 55? Ever think your dear dad might have worked himself to death supporting you? Still with kids in high school at 65? Still paying for college in his late 60s? Sounds restful to me. No wonder he finally rested at age 73. Sounds like he just barely got you through college, assuming you did go to college. He had 5 years not supporting you! Dear old Dad and depressed old Mom! No, age doesn't make a difference when all you think about is yourself. |
No, I don't think so. |