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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is way too old. You have a greater risk of having a Down Syndrome's baby. My dad was 42 when we were born. It was gross having an older dad than everyone else. Too, it is selfish. You won't be around for your grandkids. Why not adopt a child who needs parents and is already here?[/quote] How exactly is it selfish? It's no more selfish to want a baby at 40 then it is at 30. And you thinking your older dad was gross sounds like a personal issue. Not all of us have had our lives laid out perfectly like yourself. Sometimes life doesn't happen on the schedule you planned. And to say that you hands down won't be around for your grandkids is stupid. My family members live into their 90's on average. That means if my child has a child at 30 my grandchild would be 20 when I died at 90. I think that's a lot of time to spend with grandchildren (if all goes well). :roll:[/quote]
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