Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, it is not. I live in another major metroplotian area now and my kids attend private school where the average age for a last baby is probably 40 for the mom and early 40s for the dad. There are many families with onlies because they started very late... But there are also many families with 3-4 kids where both parents were in their late 40s/early 50s when their youngest started K with ours. One of the many advantages of having children later is that you can afford them: you can afford to stay home and/or have help, activities, pay for excellent education etc. A major downside is the risk for genetic abnormalities, but if you are open to CVS/amnio and termination, you will be able to test for over 200 of the most common abnormalities - still pretty low, even over 40 - incl. all 23 chromosomes for potential duplications and deletions. I did that with all of my pregnancies in my late 30s and early 40s. Zero bleeding, cramping or complications after the procedures.
You left out the most obvious disadvantage: the high risk that you either won't be around to see them or your grandkids grow up, and the real risk that you'll be a serious burden on their young adulthood as you age. There's no sugarcoating it: you're really not meant to have kids so late.