I posted something similar when I was pregnant in 2005. DC people are so rude. |
Very similar experience when I was hugely pregnant with twins in 2008. The only people ever to offer seats were Black and Latino men and Black women. White men were the absolute worst and actually refused at times to give up their seats when I asked (I’m also white so it was assh0lery not racism). |
I offered my seat to a pregnant woman, she got really angry because she turned out to be just fat, so i stopped doing it |
Have you seen the cars of the future even fewer seats and they are mostly in a long row on he edges. I am picturing a few people lying down and thats it. I have been a loyal metro rider for decades but if I have to stand for 30 minutes hanging on..I think I will be driving, |
FFS: ask them to move. I kicked out an anti abortion kid who wouldn't give a seat to me when I was 9mo. along. I looked her in the eye and said, get out. She did. I also asked various metro riders too but was nice to them. Nobody objected ever. |
I rode metro through two pregnancies and had no problem whatsoever asking to be let in to get to an empty seat whether or not a bag was sitting on it.
Once when I was 9 months I was really annoyed when a young guy didn’t offer me a seat on a packed train that whenever the train slowed I leaned towards him with my big belly inches from his face. He was uncomfortable but not enough to actually move. I occasionally would have someone get out of their seat to offer me one and it was almost always an older woman |
You have a mouth and should have asked them to move their packages so you could sit. You have only yourself to blame. There arecsnsonsests for handicapped and pregnant women. Again, your fault for not asking to sit. Lllp |
Sorry, OP. I am obviously physically disabled (involving legs and a cane) and I can't tell you how many times I've gotten on a crowded train and no one has offered a seat even as I stumble around the moving train looking for one. If there is something like a bag on one I do ask to sit down. You just have to be assertive. Especially as people try not to look at other passengers and might be reading or staring at their phone and not see you.
Hope the next couple of months fly by for you! |
PP with the physical disability and I have to second this - if anyone gets up for me it's usually a person of color, no joke. |
My DH offered his seat to a woman on the subway the woman snipped back that she didn't need his masculinist help. He has never offered since unless it is clearly someone elderly or seems to be struggling.
I have even offered my seat to people who have gotten offended. Just this week an older guy offered to help me with something in Home Depot. (Like grandfather old.) I frankly was just confused what he was asking. And when I looked at him (confused) he took it as I was offended and quickly said, I should be asking you for help. We are training manners out of people. Then there are the people who put their bags on seats and kids who put their feet on seats. What can I say? |
I’ve been pregnant 3 times and I noticed for my third that wearing a coat is enough to camouflage the bump. People didn’t notice. I was far along in the summertime for my others and was always offered seats. |
It’s rude to place objects on seats when the train is crowded, but next time just ask. I don’t place my bags on seats, but I’m also not gonna openly assume a woman is pregnant unless I see a baby crowning. |
So next time, if the train is crowded, and you arent disabled or ill, just get up and make the seat available. You dont have to announce to any one person that the seat is for them. |
Claps you are something |
Put on your big girl maternity panties and ask for a seat. Nobody is going to say no to a visibly pregnant woman. |