Coping with nanny cams

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

I am on the west coast and don't start work until 9AM.

Really? Is that the best you've got when you have nothing of substance to add?

No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

Looks like you have left behind your child in the care of an irresponsible person.

Why are so many parents doing the very same thing?

Anyone? I have little patience for such irresponsible parents.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

Looks like you have left behind your child in the care of an irresponsible person.

Why are so many parents doing the very same thing?

Anyone? I have little patience for such irresponsible parents.

No, we left our kids behind with an adult which we know we can or cannot trust. Then we get a camera to find out if we can trust this nanny or not. Satisfied?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

I am on the west coast and don't start work until 9AM.

Really? Is that the best you've got when you have nothing of substance to add?

No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

LOL Who are you taking to? There are several posters on this one thread and no one said everyone has "been there".

[Anonymous]

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No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

Then you have no business being a nanny. You should know being at home with children is endless, thankless work. Simple as that.

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

I am on the west coast and don't start work until 9AM.

Really? Is that the best you've got when you have nothing of substance to add?

No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

LOL Who are you taking to? There are several posters on this one thread and no one said everyone has "been there".

Is English not your first language?

[Anonymous]

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No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

Then you have no business being a nanny. You should know being at home with children is endless, thankless work. Simple as that.

You are confused today. Perhaps a nice walk would help.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

I am on the west coast and don't start work until 9AM.

Really? Is that the best you've got when you have nothing of substance to add?

No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

LOL Who are you taking to? There are several posters on this one thread and no one said everyone has "been there".

Is English not your first language?

English is my primary, but not only, language, Dear? What is yours?

Where in this particular thread (in which I contributed) say anything about "been there". Just highlight what I missed in bold and I will apologize.

Go ahead... I will wait...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

I am on the west coast and don't start work until 9AM.

Really? Is that the best you've got when you have nothing of substance to add?

No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

LOL Who are you taking to? There are several posters on this one thread and no one said everyone has "been there".

Is English not your first language?

English is my primary, but not only, language, Dear? What is yours?

Where in this particular thread (in which I contributed) say anything about "been there". Just highlight what I missed in bold and I will apologize.

Go ahead... I will wait...

You may reread 9:58. Don't be so lazy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

I am on the west coast and don't start work until 9AM.

Really? Is that the best you've got when you have nothing of substance to add?

No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

LOL Who are you taking to? There are several posters on this one thread and no one said everyone has "been there".

Is English not your first language?

English is my primary, but not only, language, Dear? What is yours?

Where in this particular thread (in which I contributed) say anything about "been there". Just highlight what I missed in bold and I will apologize.

Go ahead... I will wait...

You may reread 9:58. Don't be so lazy.

I apologize - I bolded it. You are right - I did miss it.

But.. why are you commenting on this topic if you have never had a child who naps or been a nanny with napping charges? Are you saying that cameras wouldn't bother you if you didn't have downtime?

Please - just calm down and engage is a discussion.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How can the nanny get used to the camera and forget it's there if the parents make indiscreet comments about what they see? How can you forget when there is a camera everywhere you turn? This is not the typical nanny cam in the playroom scenario. No one is forgetting about these cameras.

Nanny here and work for a high profile couple who does have cameras everywhere but the bathrooms. I have completely forgotten about them and do, act and work as I would if the cameras were not present. I don't know how I do - I just do.

I have never made personal phone calls or watched TV when working so that has never been an issue whether there were cameras in the house or not. When my charges are napping, I do my usual child-related chores and then sit down, have lunch and read. When my employers make comments or ask about what book I am reading - I just tell them. Who cares? Strangers in the park can ask you what book you are reading and no offense is taken.

I am not a live-in nanny so I don't feel that I need very personal time in my work environment.

I don't think it's an apt comparison. If a stranger listened to you make a phone call and inserted themselves into the conversation you would probably be offended by the intrusion. Not because using a cell phone outside of your house is unreasonable, because intruding on a conversation that does not include you is rude and creepy. I also think a high profile family has greater cause for concern. Their status might attract people who are looking to profit by taking advantage of their generosity. I'm also curious how many hours you work. For someone who works above and beyond normal business hours it's will be impossible to call a doctors office or schedule any appointments outside of the work day.

the real issue here is that the NF is clearly using the cameras to amuse themselves at the nannys expense. How would it go over if the nanny commented on a prescription bottle she happened to see on the bathroom counter? Just because we work in close contact where personal information is readily available doesn't mean we get to be be tackles with our comments.

Exactly. Now let's see how she responds...

For the OP, there are two possibilities.

1. The family is truely weird and doesn't know boundaries.

2. Making comments is a way of sending an indirect message saying "We know you make personal calls. Act accordingly."

Sounds like the OP has a problem with spending too much time on the phone and making personal calls and watching TV. We have all been there with young kids who nap. It's impossible to get all the kids' laundry, clean up, meals prepped. Why is the nanny having any time at all watching TV during work hours? She is not a SAHM. She is a paid employee. No one gets paid to watch TV.

Sounds like you need to get back to work.

I am on the west coast and don't start work until 9AM.

Really? Is that the best you've got when you have nothing of substance to add?

No, we haven't all "been there" as you claim. Speak for yourself, woman.

LOL Who are you taking to? There are several posters on this one thread and no one said everyone has "been there".

Is English not your first language?

English is my primary, but not only, language, Dear? What is yours?

Where in this particular thread (in which I contributed) say anything about "been there". Just highlight what I missed in bold and I will apologize.

Go ahead... I will wait...

You may reread 9:58. Don't be so lazy.

I apologize - I bolded it. You are right - I did miss it.

But.. why are you commenting on this topic if you have never had a child who naps or been a nanny with napping charges? Are you saying that cameras wouldn't bother you if you didn't have downtime?

Please - just calm down and engage is a discussion.

What's your point?

[Anonymous]

Op here. I am not concerned with my employees hearing the content of my calls. I wouldn't say anything that I was afraid of them hearing. I also am not having a problem with getting things done, DS and I clean as we go. DD is only 11 months so she hangs out with us while we work. And really the bare fact that there is a camera at all is not an issue- I said as much to begin with. I have even worked in coporate environments where there were cameras. What makes this position a poor fit for me is the pervasive surveillance combined with the lack professionalism. As one pp noted, we are bound to encounter personal details about each other. I don't bring up the arguments I overhear or the bills I see pile up from time to time. I don't comment on DBs decision to quit his job and write a novel of MBs decision to have breast augmentation surgery. My wheelhouse is childcare and the things that help or hinder my ability to do it well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I am not concerned with my employees hearing the content of my calls. I wouldn't say anything that I was afraid of them hearing. I also am not having a problem with getting things done, DS and I clean as we go. DD is only 11 months so she hangs out with us while we work. And really the bare fact that there is a camera at all is not an issue- I said as much to begin with. I have even worked in coporate environments where there were cameras. What makes this position a poor fit for me is the pervasive surveillance combined with the lack professionalism. As one pp noted, we are bound to encounter personal details about each other. I don't bring up the arguments I overhear or the bills I see pile up from time to time. I don't comment on DBs decision to quit his job and write a novel of MBs decision to have breast augmentation surgery. My wheelhouse is childcare and the things that help or hinder my ability to do it well.

I think there's only one troll poster arguing with you. I'd ignore her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

Looks like you have left behind your child in the care of an irresponsible person.

Why are so many parents doing the very same thing?

8:17?

Why are so many nannies often late to MyGym? You tell me.
You sound like a nut job nanny posting on here 100x an hour.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They prob just check the cams 0-2 time a day.
I know I like to see if my kids made it to class on time after the teacher said she was often late. And that her nap started at a reasonable time. Obviously if I see the nanny forming bad habits, we talk about it.

Looks like you have left behind your child in the care of an irresponsible person.

Why are so many parents doing the very same thing?

8:17?

Why are so many nannies often late to MyGym? You tell me.
You sound like a nut job nanny posting on here 100x an hour.

Typical avoidance behavior.