Nanny went out last night and came back engaged.

[Anonymous]

OP here,

Thanks for the replies. I haven't said anything about my feeling to her. DH thinks i am being unreasonable as well. But no, I would not offer to have her wedding at my home. Her fiance's home is 3 times the size of mine.

[Anonymous]

Entitlement is more pervasive than we'd like to think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Entitlement is more pervasive than we'd like to think.

So is trolling on this board.

[Anonymous]

Your nanny went out and came back engaged and is giving you 6 months notice. It's not like she went out and got hit by a car and died leaving you with no notice.

Setting a date this soon sounds very strange to me though.hmmm

[Anonymous]

That is the beauty of romance after all.

It is spontaneous. It is unplanned. It is what it is.

Be happy for her. Embrace it. This is probably the most happiest time of her life. Instead of thinking only of your needs now, try to think of HER like she has been thinking of YOU and YOUR family.

Honestly, you sound really selfish to me.

[Anonymous]

Op here.

I do not mean to sound selfish, however, I just feel that this wedding is a major inconvenience to an otherwise great plan we had with our nanny. We knew that we would only have a little time with her (in the scheme of things) but we are going to miss the rhythm she has with the childcare duties now. Turns out DH and I are not pregnant this month anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cannot believe how many people are falling for this troll post.

Agree!!!!

[Anonymous]

You should have asked her to marry YOU. Too late now...

[Anonymous]

Maybe the nanny is pregnant. Shotgun anyone?