Ah! Speaking of India and help there, India is known for having "servants" there is no such thing as a nanny, its just a "Bai" who does everything and is treated like a low class citizen, because they are normally the illiterate and less fortunate people. Indians are known for exploiting the less fortunate and taking advantage of them.
In America, Nannying is a full time job/a career. which involves special classes and education, people specialize in childcare, we are not considered "servants' and every job be it big or small is respected here sand people treated as humans and with respect, hence salary is expected. I refuse to work with Asian people because no matter how long they have been in this country, or how educated they are, they still hesitate to pay, and treat people like slaves. No matter how good they may seem, it does slowly starts showing. Before anyone jumps down my throat --- I am Indian! |
why are u all giving her a hard time for $40/hr. I am not sure what state, city or worlds u all work at but $30-$40 is not that unbelievable. I have made $25-30 and not $40... its all about where you work, your experience, education and skills. Anyone and everyone claims to be a nanny and set the bar so low it makes it hard for professional nannies. But people who know, know, and only they value their nannies and respect them. |
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Same. I have a policy to never work with foreigners. give me Americans white or black and I will do my best to care for their children as long as I am treated with respect. |
This is the problem here!!!!! If you cannot afford to pay a nanny $40 an hour that is a “You” issue. However, there are wealthy employers who are willing to pay that because it may be a drop in their bucket. The psychology of it is when you let people know that they are valued in every way including their monetary compensation, they are more inclined to do over and beyond what is required. |
what a dumb unquestionably.
Those filipino nannie’s are being taken advantage of. I’m the third world… “nannie’s” are basically slaves. |
this. |
+1 Not everyone, obviously opportunities don't exist for everyone, but there are more than in the Philippines. |
Bingo! Although I know lots of biological mothers who outsource the housecleaning. |
Lincoln Freed the Slaves - Seriously you don't own people. |
Because there is no concept of human rights or worker's rights in those countries.
My husband is from a SEA country. His family has 2 full time live-in maids, 2 full time live-in nannies (one for each of his sister's kids) and 2 full time live-in male workers (they do the driving, gardening, cleaning outside the house, and random other physical work). I was astounded when I first visited to stay over and saw them working. I asked what time all of them started to work and what time they end- there is no set time to any day, so they are at the beck and call of their employers from the moment they wake up to around 10pm when DH's parents (the elders) go to sleep. They are also 'on' everyday including the weekends. One needs a car to leave the house in the suburbs to go anywhere, and obviously these workers do not have the means to pay someone to drive into the city etc. so they are truly prisoners of the house. The only holiday they get is 1 week off from work per year when they are sent home for religious celebration (like Christmas to New Years here). I asked DH how much one person cost and he said on average around $200USD/day, and that even normal MC couples can usually afford at least one live-in person as a nanny/housekeeper. It is truly a different world out there, there is no equivalent to work like that in the US. |
When we said goodbye to our beloved nanny after 9 years, I told her please, please do not work for foreigners. I've llved abroad and I saw how nannies are treated. |
Another Nanny here that makes $45 hourly/guaranteed hours and all benefits. I was a pre-k teacher and made hardly any $ A good, excellent and educated nanny will cost you the money you don’t have. You gotta pay to play! The days of cheap labor are over. |
Not BS at all. See the job board Adventures Nannies and look at salary range of an experienced Nanny. Thankfully, I don’t have to work for cheap labor. |
It's essential to strike a balance between fulfilling work responsibilities and recognizing the importance of children having independent playtime. While some nannies might need guidance, parents should also appreciate that downtime fosters creativity and self-sufficiency. Finding a middle ground ensures a healthy environment for both nannies and kids. |