Some Parent Code?

[Anonymous]

No it's not like the "other woman" in a marriage. There'ss zero lifetime commitment for a nanny job.

Most (not all) nanny employers would ditch the nanny in a heartbeat if it was financially advisable for any reason.

Let's be honest here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well it looks to me as if she is already gainfully employed and already has a family that she is happily working for so if you were to step in and make her a job offer knowing this, it would be wrong of you to infringe.

Kinda like being the "other woman" in a marriage.

Like you know the status quo, yet you still upset it because you want what you want.

ok, repeat that next time your husband comes in and tells you that he go an amazing job offer from another employer with a great salary hike. or tell that to yourself next time somebody offers you a job with better benfits and salary. when you (or your H) keep the the lower paying job, than come back here and we can talk

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Most would not skip an opportunity with better pay and benefits.

I'm really sick of nanny families thinking they own their nannies. They feel so betrayed that a nanny will want something greater for themselves. It's disgusting and pathetic. Nannies are free to make the beg decision for their future. That includes leaving for better paying jobs.

I agree.

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Nannies are free agents, not your personal property. OP. approach her as suggested by telling her how much you admire her way with charge. Give her $5.00 an hour more than she is presently paid and she will ptobably take the job.

Excellent advice.



I am truly a fantastic nanny (it is the only thing in my life I have ever been great at). I have been approached by other parents a few times with promised of 25% salary increase and shorter hours. But part of being a fantastic nanny is my devotion to me current charge. I wouldn't leave him for double the salary right now.

We assume your current employers compensate you accordingly, yes?

Obviously, PP, she is happy with her compensation.

PP here and yes I am happy with my salary and annual raises but, like everyone else in the world, I am always open to earning more money! I just wouldn't leave my charge right now for more. When this job comes to it's natural end I will be happy to seek a higher paying position.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best employers should have the best nannies.