Saw father hit 4 year old

[Anonymous]

The only reason why 0:00 thinks she's a nanny, is because she found parents stupid enough to agree with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In response to 11:21, while I'm not expecting MB to call
CPS or report abuse she did not see herself, I guess I do expect her to not want to put her children around someone who would do that, which is all I basically asked- that we remove ourselves from socializing with this family.

Also, is it really necessary to be so mean in response to a post? Is this where people go to hide behind an a computer and say things they wouldn't say to someone's face? I appreciate your point of view. Probably would be better received if you were nicer about it.

Again you repeat that you want to remove this girl from your charge's circle of friends.

How is that not punishing this man's daughter, who clearly needs all the love and support she can get, or your own charge, who's also done nothing wrong and wouldn't understand why she's not allowed to see this friend any more?

You all just sound so incredibly ignorant and inflammatory. Of course child abuse is wrong. Of course. Of course you should report it to the authorities if you think it warrants that. But trying to force your MB to cut a little girl out of her daughter's life is an incredibly bizarre and unprofessional reaction and I am baffled that so many people think your MB has any power at all in this situation. She doesn't; YOU do. You are the witness. If you want to do something, DO SOMETHING, don't try to pressure your MB into making a decision she's clearly uncomfortable with.

PLUS 1000. OP you have all if this 'logic' backwards, penalizing the little girl and taking away her friend is what you're doing. You're not punishing her jackass of a so called father. This isn't about you? Yet you're making it about you! If you truly care about the child, and make an anonymous phone call. Don't involve your MB. She didnt see anything. Make the CALL otherwise quit acting like you care, because its really all about you. Make the call or go away. You're not a saint if you care, you're a saint if you call CPS and help stop this piece of shit. No one else including our 'wonderful' 'great' family. They don't sound all great if they're choosing to turn a blind eye to a situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In response to 11:21, while I'm not expecting MB to call
CPS or report abuse she did not see herself, I guess I do expect her to not want to put her children around someone who would do that, which is all I basically asked- that we remove ourselves from socializing with this family.

Also, is it really necessary to be so mean in response to a post? Is this where people go to hide behind an a computer and say things they wouldn't say to someone's face? I appreciate your point of view. Probably would be better received if you were nicer about it.

Again you repeat that you want to remove this girl from your charge's circle of friends.

How is that not punishing this man's daughter, who clearly needs all the love and support she can get, or your own charge, who's also done nothing wrong and wouldn't understand why she's not allowed to see this friend any more?

You all just sound so incredibly ignorant and inflammatory. Of course child abuse is wrong. Of course. Of course you should report it to the authorities if you think it warrants that. But trying to force your MB to cut a little girl out of her daughter's life is an incredibly bizarre and unprofessional reaction and I am baffled that so many people think your MB has any power at all in this situation. She doesn't; YOU do. You are the witness. If you want to do something, DO SOMETHING, don't try to pressure your MB into making a decision she's clearly uncomfortable with.

This.

Your reaction is selfish and about you, not the children.

Report it & quit trying to avoid an uncomfortable situation that is good for the kids. I wouldn't drop my charges off at that house ever, but anything more is not beneficial to the kids.

[Anonymous]

The nanny is under no obligation to look after the kid whose fathet hit her. The mother of this child, however, is obligated to stop her husband.