Saw father hit 4 year old

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The abuser is in a state of rage. If he's not forced into getting help, it will keep getting worse. No one knows for sure where it'll stop.

Seriously? Did you just take a bunch of buzz words regarding abuse and string them together to try to sound smart/be dramatic?

Your point with this post is what, exactly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Protectig MBs kids is my priority. I guess I simply don't understand why it doesn't appear to be MBs. Would you want your child around someone who slaps 4 year olds?

I don't mean to punish this guys daughter- I understand that it would probably hurt her more but my priorities are the kids I care for. Do I think this guy would hit them? Probably not. Do I want to risk that? Absolutely not. Who wants their kid subjected to someone who hits their own child?

It is up to me on whether to contact CPS. I'm not asking MB for input or help in that regard.

Sorry OP, perhaps I misread, are you suggesting that MB wants you to leave your charge(s) on an unsupervised playdate with this man?

I understood that you would be there. If so, you're just being dramatic for no reason because obviously he's not going to hit any kids while you're there. If I'm wrong and you're supposed to leave the girls alone with him, yeah, I'd be uncomfortable with that. But anything short of it? GROW UP and handle it. That you're even suggesting MB's priority is not the safety of her children is disgusting; of course that's her #1 priority in life.

I agree with this. Perhaps we misunderstood you, OP, but the way I read your post was that the potentially abused little girl was going to come for a playdate at MBs house while you are there and then the father will pick her up. So your charges aren't ever going to be alone with the father and the little girl gets to spend some time away from her father. If this is correct I fail to see the problem or how this is in anyway harming your charges. Perhaps your MB is also trying to reach out to the poor little girl as well since she wasn't a witness to what happened and this is the only way she can help her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The abuser is in a state of rage. If he's not forced into getting help, it will keep getting worse. No one knows for sure where it'll stop.

Seriously? Did you just take a bunch of buzz words regarding abuse and string them together to try to sound smart/be dramatic?

Your point with this post is what, exactly?

A bunch of buzz words.... like rage? Anyone know what other "buzz words" I used? Looks like this woman has her own anger management issues to deal with. I hope she's working hard to keep them in check, but maybe should get help to if she's this defensive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The abuser is in a state of rage. If he's not forced into getting help, it will keep getting worse. No one knows for sure where it'll stop.

Seriously? Did you just take a bunch of buzz words regarding abuse and string them together to try to sound smart/be dramatic?

Your point with this post is what, exactly?

A bunch of buzz words.... like rage? Anyone know what other "buzz words" I used? Looks like this woman has her own anger management issues to deal with. I hope she's working hard to keep them in check, but maybe should get help to if she's this defensive.

I'm not the PP but I recognize your posting style and your history of posts illustrates your idiocy.

Your original post means nothing. It has no substance. Do you have concrete evidence for the father's "state of rage"? How do you recommend he be "forced into getting help"? Whose responsibility is that? PP is right, you just strung a bunch of crap together to try and sound insightful but it is a completely hollow and pointless post. You have every right to post it, of course, but we have every right to call you out on wasting time and space.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The abuser is in a state of rage. If he's not forced into getting help, it will keep getting worse. No one knows for sure where it'll stop.

Seriously? Did you just take a bunch of buzz words regarding abuse and string them together to try to sound smart/be dramatic?

Your point with this post is what, exactly?

A bunch of buzz words.... like rage? Anyone know what other "buzz words" I used? Looks like this woman has her own anger management issues to deal with. I hope she's working hard to keep them in check, but maybe should get help to if she's this defensive.

I'm not the PP but I recognize your posting style and your history of posts illustrates your idiocy.

Your original post means nothing. It has no substance. Do you have concrete evidence for the father's "state of rage"? How do you recommend he be "forced into getting help"? Whose responsibility is that? PP is right, you just strung a bunch of crap together to try and sound insightful but it is a completely hollow and pointless post. You have every right to post it, of course, but we have every right to call you out on wasting time and space.

Lol +1000 I always thought this poster was a troll. Now we know she's just crazy/unintelligent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The abuser is in a state of rage. If he's not forced into getting help, it will keep getting worse. No one knows for sure where it'll stop.

Seriously? Did you just take a bunch of buzz words regarding abuse and string them together to try to sound smart/be dramatic?

Your point with this post is what, exactly?

Which buzz words are you having a hard time with today?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I TOTALLY disagree. If he's slapping her over a marshmellow, who knows if he's hitting her or doing worse at home. This should be reported. The child is in danger, and needs an adult to stand up for her. At least you could say to your boss that you are really worried about the girl, it shows that you are a caring, loving person. What kind of parent just ignores this?

It was a slap not a beating. It is HIS child, NOT yours and you have no right to tell him how to discipline his own child. It is a slap get over it.

[Anonymous]

A hard slap across a four year old's face
IS
child abuse.

You may check with your local CPS if you want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I TOTALLY disagree. If he's slapping her over a marshmellow, who knows if he's hitting her or doing worse at home. This should be reported. The child is in danger, and needs an adult to stand up for her. At least you could say to your boss that you are really worried about the girl, it shows that you are a caring, loving person. What kind of parent just ignores this?

It was a slap not a beating. It is HIS child, NOT yours and you have no right to tell him how to discipline his own child. It is a slap get over it.

Are you serious? We aren't talking about discipline here (and the law defines proper, rather improper, discipline, and I assure you face slapping is not protected). If you smacked an adult in the face, its assault. Why would you think its okay to do to a child, a 4 year old at that? I hope to goodness you are neither a parent nor a nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous



Protectig MBs kids is my priority. I guess I simply don't understand why it doesn't appear to be MBs. Would you want your child around someone who slaps 4 year olds?

I don't mean to punish this guys daughter- I understand that it would probably hurt her more but my priorities are the kids I care for. Do I think this guy would hit them? Probably not. Do I want to risk that? Absolutely not. Who wants their kid subjected to someone who hits their own child?

It is up to me on whether to contact CPS. I'm not asking MB for input or help in that regard.

Your charges aren't going to be around or supervised by this man. He is coming to pick up his child from a play date. A play date you supervise. I don't see the problem and can't imagine why you'd be so over dramatic as to refuse play dates.

If you want to report him for abuse, by all means, do it. But your present plan is not addressing the needs you say you want to address.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I TOTALLY disagree. If he's slapping her over a marshmellow, who knows if he's hitting her or doing worse at home. This should be reported. The child is in danger, and needs an adult to stand up for her. At least you could say to your boss that you are really worried about the girl, it shows that you are a caring, loving person. What kind of parent just ignores this?

It was a slap not a beating. It is HIS child, NOT yours and you have no right to tell him how to discipline his own child. It is a slap get over it.

Are you serious? We aren't talking about discipline here (and the law defines proper, rather improper, discipline, and I assure you face slapping is not protected). If you smacked an adult in the face, its assault. Why would you think its okay to do to a child, a 4 year old at that? I hope to goodness you are neither a parent nor a nanny.

You are wrong. It is a slap, big deal and some kids are little snots because people decide that god forbid they be punished. Actually I am a nanny who deals with parents who believe in corpal punishment. I would never spank another person's child thouigh I have been told I can. Maybe a good smack will teach some of these anti social brats that they aren't the center of the world and that they need to respect.

[Anonymous]

OP, please report this to CPS. You are a mandated reporter. For a parent to smack their kid hard in the face is abusive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I TOTALLY disagree. If he's slapping her over a marshmellow, who knows if he's hitting her or doing worse at home. This should be reported. The child is in danger, and needs an adult to stand up for her. At least you could say to your boss that you are really worried about the girl, it shows that you are a caring, loving person. What kind of parent just ignores this?

It was a slap not a beating. It is HIS child, NOT yours and you have no right to tell him how to discipline his own child. It is a slap get over it.

Are you serious? We aren't talking about discipline here (and the law defines proper, rather improper, discipline, and I assure you face slapping is not protected). If you smacked an adult in the face, its assault. Why would you think its okay to do to a child, a 4 year old at that? I hope to goodness you are neither a parent nor a nanny.

You are wrong. It is a slap, big deal and some kids are little snots because people decide that god forbid they be punished. Actually I am a nanny who deals with parents who believe in corpal punishment. I would never spank another person's child thouigh I have been told I can. Maybe a good smack will teach some of these anti social brats that they aren't the center of the world and that they need to respect.

Have you been smacked?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I TOTALLY disagree. If he's slapping her over a marshmellow, who knows if he's hitting her or doing worse at home. This should be reported. The child is in danger, and needs an adult to stand up for her. At least you could say to your boss that you are really worried about the girl, it shows that you are a caring, loving person. What kind of parent just ignores this?

It was a slap not a beating. It is HIS child, NOT yours and you have no right to tell him how to discipline his own child. It is a slap get over it.

Are you serious? We aren't talking about discipline here (and the law defines proper, rather improper, discipline, and I assure you face slapping is not protected). If you smacked an adult in the face, its assault. Why would you think its okay to do to a child, a 4 year old at that? I hope to goodness you are neither a parent nor a nanny.

You are wrong. It is a slap, big deal and some kids are little snots because people decide that god forbid they be punished. Actually I am a nanny who deals with parents who believe in corpal punishment. I would never spank another person's child thouigh I have been told I can. Maybe a good smack will teach some of these anti social brats that they aren't the center of the world and that they need to respect.

Can I smack you if you're being a "snot" or a "brat"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I TOTALLY disagree. If he's slapping her over a marshmellow, who knows if he's hitting her or doing worse at home. This should be reported. The child is in danger, and needs an adult to stand up for her. At least you could say to your boss that you are really worried about the girl, it shows that you are a caring, loving person. What kind of parent just ignores this?

It was a slap not a beating. It is HIS child, NOT yours and you have no right to tell him how to discipline his own child. It is a slap get over it.

Are you serious? We aren't talking about discipline here (and the law defines proper, rather improper, discipline, and I assure you face slapping is not protected). If you smacked an adult in the face, its assault. Why would you think its okay to do to a child, a 4 year old at that? I hope to goodness you are neither a parent nor a nanny.

You are wrong. It is a slap, big deal and some kids are little snots because people decide that god forbid they be punished. Actually I am a nanny who deals with parents who believe in corpal punishment. I would never spank another person's child thouigh I have been told I can. Maybe a good smack will teach some of these anti social brats that they aren't the center of the world and that they need to respect.

You're disgusting and there is no way you are a nanny.