Do I tell DB he makes me uncomfortable with touching me?

[Anonymous]

I know this seems a little odd but whenever DB walks me to the door when leaving he put his hand on the middle of my back. It does make me uncomfortable. I have never had a boss do this ( experienced that with bf's). I don't believe it's sexual but can't be sure. He has said a sexual remark about me " wanting to bang something hard" with a hammer, asks about men I'm dating, " flexes" or does push ups in front of me, and often checks me out. I don't know if he is just being a guy and its nothing. Either way I do feel uncomfortable but I like this position and I don't want to make a fuss about it.

[Anonymous]

Offer to sleep with him. If he says no then it wasn't sexual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Offer to sleep with him. If he says no then it wasn't sexual.

I will never sleep with someone who is my boss, or more importantly, a married man. Nice one troll.

[Anonymous]

Don't say anything

[Anonymous]

I think you are really over thinking this.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with putting a hand on your back. I could see my husband doing that. The rest though, is completely inappropriate and sexual harrasment.

[Anonymous]

My boss always give me a kiss on my face when I come and go to my work,i don't see nothing wrong with this,I think your brain is the problem,some people see bad thing everywehere,please berevior yourselph...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My boss always give me a kiss on my face when I come and go to my work,i don't see nothing wrong with this,I think your brain is the problem,some people see bad thing everywehere,please berevior yourselph...

Your boss kisses you? That is not normal by any standards.

[Anonymous]

You people can't be serious.

[Anonymous]

I think you're being oversensitive.

[Anonymous]

You tell him stop touching me it makes me uncomfortable. Your body your rules.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You tell him stop touching me it makes me uncomfortable. Your body your rules.

+100

Why do you need permission to tell someone to stop touching you? It doesn't matter who it is, you can tell them to stop. You can say no, I don't like that. Don't be afraid to ask for the respect you deserve especially when it's about your body.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Offer to sleep with him. If he says no then it wasn't sexual.

I will never sleep with someone who is my boss, or more importantly, a married man. Nice one troll.

Hey troll, no one said TO sleep with him, only to offer to and see what he says. Learn to read.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My boss always give me a kiss on my face when I come and go to my work,i don't see nothing wrong with this,I think your brain is the problem,some people see bad thing everywehere,please berevior yourselph...

Your boss kiss on your face and you are OK with that.
WOW can't imagine anyone touching me.
Handshake is ok other than that I don't think it's normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know this seems a little odd but whenever DB walks me to the door when leaving he put his hand on the middle of my back. It does make me uncomfortable. I have never had a boss do this ( experienced that with bf's). I don't believe it's sexual but can't be sure. He has said a sexual remark about me " wanting to bang something hard" with a hammer, asks about men I'm dating, " flexes" or does push ups in front of me, and often checks me out. I don't know if he is just being a guy and its nothing. Either way I do feel uncomfortable but I like this position and I don't want to make a fuss about it.

Please women it's your body and if you are not comfortable tell him. There is no hesitation for this kind of situations. I am a nanny and I don't like or let anybody touch me beside my husband.