Do I tell DB he makes me uncomfortable with touching me?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My boss always give me a kiss on my face when I come and go to my work,i don't see nothing wrong with this,I think your brain is the problem,some people see bad thing everywehere,please berevior yourselph...

Your boss kiss on your face and you are OK with that.
WOW can't imagine anyone touching me.
Handshake is ok other than that I don't think it's normal.

People ,my family they always kiss me and give hugs,they are very polite and rich people ,i love that because this show how they appreciate and loves me.

So what does this have to do with OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This people is very stupid,they think only bad things...

You're right, DH is very stupid and is thinking only bad things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks to all the helpful responses. One time he tried to put his hand on my back and I hurried up my pace and was out the door. I thought that would show him I'm not into him touching me but he has done it still. Sometimes he will even put his hand right above my butt area and guide me out.

Ugh. Unfortunately, I think you're going to end up looking for a new job. These types of guys have big egos and usually retaliate by criticizing you for minor things.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know this seems a little odd but whenever DB walks me to the door when leaving he put his hand on the middle of my back. It does make me uncomfortable. I have never had a boss do this ( experienced that with bf's). I don't believe it's sexual but can't be sure. He has said a sexual remark about me " wanting to bang something hard" with a hammer, asks about men I'm dating, " flexes" or does push ups in front of me, and often checks me out. I don't know if he is just being a guy and its nothing. Either way I do feel uncomfortable but I like this position and I don't want to make a fuss about it.

Please women it's your body and if you are not comfortable tell him. There is no hesitation for this kind of situations. I am a nanny and I don't like or let anybody touch me beside my husband.


so you think you are a good one by letting your boss touch all over. I feel sorry for you.

You must not be a very good nanny if this is true.....

[Anonymous]

You should definitely tell him to stop.
But I would also look for a new job I wouldn't be comfortable working with him in the home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know this seems a little odd but whenever DB walks me to the door when leaving he put his hand on the middle of my back. It does make me uncomfortable. I have never had a boss do this ( experienced that with bf's). I don't believe it's sexual but can't be sure. He has said a sexual remark about me " wanting to bang something hard" with a hammer, asks about men I'm dating, " flexes" or does push ups in front of me, and often checks me out. I don't know if he is just being a guy and its nothing. Either way I do feel uncomfortable but I like this position and I don't want to make a fuss about it.

Please women it's your body and if you are not comfortable tell him. There is no hesitation for this kind of situations. I am a nanny and I don't like or let anybody touch me beside my husband.

You must not be a very good nanny if this is true.....

And you must be the nanny who sleeps with their boss.

[Anonymous]

You are such a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know this seems a little odd but whenever DB walks me to the door when leaving he put his hand on the middle of my back. It does make me uncomfortable. I have never had a boss do this ( experienced that with bf's). I don't believe it's sexual but can't be sure. He has said a sexual remark about me " wanting to bang something hard" with a hammer, asks about men I'm dating, " flexes" or does push ups in front of me, and often checks me out. I don't know if he is just being a guy and its nothing. Either way I do feel uncomfortable but I like this position and I don't want to make a fuss about it.

Please women it's your body and if you are not comfortable tell him. There is no hesitation for this kind of situations. I am a nanny and I don't like or let anybody touch me beside my husband.

You must not be a very good nanny if this is true.....

What do you mean not a very good nanny if this is true. If you sleep with your boss so that makes you a good nanny. I think you must be a creepy person .Shame on you .

[Anonymous]

I'm op. I have decided to quit this position with Friday being my last day. DH did the back thing again and I politely explained I am uncomfortable with that. He looked like I offended him. He did it again the next day but then stated " oh I forgot you don't like that." I told him " no I do not. I have given you a warning that I do not feel comfortable and with you doing it again, I will have to resign by the end of the week. He laughed but I was serious. I told MB the next day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know this seems a little odd but whenever DB walks me to the door when leaving he put his hand on the middle of my back. It does make me uncomfortable. I have never had a boss do this ( experienced that with bf's). I don't believe it's sexual but can't be sure. He has said a sexual remark about me " wanting to bang something hard" with a hammer, asks about men I'm dating, " flexes" or does push ups in front of me, and often checks me out. I don't know if he is just being a guy and its nothing. Either way I do feel uncomfortable but I like this position and I don't want to make a fuss about it.

Please women it's your body and if you are not comfortable tell him. There is no hesitation for this kind of situations. I am a nanny and I don't like or let anybody touch me beside my husband.

You must not be a very good nanny if this is true.....

What do you mean not a very good nanny if this is true. If you sleep with your boss so that makes you a good nanny. I think you must be a creepy person .Shame on you .

Because you can't be a good nanny working with children if no one but your husband can touch you. What a cold and unloving nanny. What's difficult to figure out?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm op. I have decided to quit this position with Friday being my last day. DH did the back thing again and I politely explained I am uncomfortable with that. He looked like I offended him. He did it again the next day but then stated " oh I forgot you don't like that." I told him " no I do not. I have given you a warning that I do not feel comfortable and with you doing it again, I will have to resign by the end of the week. He laughed but I was serious. I told MB the next day.

Good for you! I would have quit the second time he did it immediately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm op. I have decided to quit this position with Friday being my last day. DH did the back thing again and I politely explained I am uncomfortable with that. He looked like I offended him. He did it again the next day but then stated " oh I forgot you don't like that." I told him " no I do not. I have given you a warning that I do not feel comfortable and with you doing it again, I will have to resign by the end of the week. He laughed but I was serious. I told MB the next day.

Did you tell her the reason?
What was her reaction?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are right, he is just being a man, but also it is not right what he is doing.

Either kindly let him know you are uncomfortable with any type of touching or certain remarks, or seek another family.

Boys will be boys, but there are some men out there who will respect their nannies and their wives to not make moves like the ones this guy is making on you.

This is a terrible thing to say. By saying "Boys will be boys" you are insulting women and men. You are telling women that it is okay for guys to get away with anything because they are "just being guys". And you are telling guys/boys that their behavior is accepted and expected because of their gender.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm op. I have decided to quit this position with Friday being my last day. DH did the back thing again and I politely explained I am uncomfortable with that. He looked like I offended him. He did it again the next day but then stated " oh I forgot you don't like that." I told him " no I do not. I have given you a warning that I do not feel comfortable and with you doing it again, I will have to resign by the end of the week. He laughed but I was serious. I told MB the next day.

Did you tell her the reason?
What was her reaction?

I did not. I gave her an excuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm op. I have decided to quit this position with Friday being my last day. DH did the back thing again and I politely explained I am uncomfortable with that. He looked like I offended him. He did it again the next day but then stated " oh I forgot you don't like that." I told him " no I do not. I have given you a warning that I do not feel comfortable and with you doing it again, I will have to resign by the end of the week. He laughed but I was serious. I told MB the next day.

Did you tell her the reason?
What was her reaction?

I did not. I gave her an excuse.

I hope you find another job soon.
Good luck!!