Advice on toddler + twins

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No GPs around to help. Just us and nanny. First I've heard that it's "cruel" for a nanny to stay with a family and care for more children as the family grows and ages !

NP. Stop being obtuse. She is saying it would be cruel to send 2.5 to schiol away from nanny. Could you take care of all three? If not, then hire a new nanny for the twins.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For those of you with experience in this situation, can you provide some specifics or schedules that made it work? For example, toddler is very used to a set schedule and spends almost the whole morning outside most days (playground, library, group play) and some of the afternoon outside again. How would that work if we want twins to nap in their cribs and not in strollers?

Ask your nanny! She is the one who is going to be caring for all three!! Apparently , you don't trust her and if you come at her with suggestions gleaned from an anonymous chat room, you are going to lose her fast