racy photos of au pair on instagram

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Anonymous wrote:Our au pair's Instagram account is filled with racy/suggestive photos of her taken in her bedroom at our house and around DC and on other adventures in her au pair year with us (it's been 9 months). This makes me uncomfortable, and I read somewhere that exact geographic coordinates can be extracted from Instagram photos taken with a smartphone. Is this true? What would others do about this (if anything)? I don't use instagram but I was able to see all the photos without being "friends" with her or "following" her -- they seem to be 100% public. Also, there is one photo of my daughter on her acct, which is an innocent photo but I'm not happy in general about that.

Why don’t you post the Instagram so we can give you some feedback? You’re asking us to accept your definition of racy, which others may see differently. See the discussion above this post.

Eh don't post her private info. Would you like nannies posting private info from thier employees? No, right.

You must not understand how social media works. No one suggested posting private info. The suggestion was to post the Instagram link, which must be public since OP saw it. Note that someone upstream posted an example and most found the photos perfectly acceptable. Doing so is the best way for OP to get informed advice.

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OP here. Thanks for the feedback! I am not going to post the Instagram link, mostly because this is an anonymous board and also because she has since made it private. We rematched. It’s over. There was more than just this one issue with the match and it was time to move on.

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Anonymous wrote:What do you consider too much for Instagram?
We reviewed this candidate and thought it was fine.
https://www.instagram.com/claudia.branchetti/?hl=en

We passed on her due to experience but her Instagram would not have stopped us. Sure, she may be a little princess type but nothing too racy imo.

I don’t consider her photos racy. She’s stunning, but her pics are tasteful.

Pics are fine, that would not concern me. She is stunning and the photos are tasteful. What I find a big turn off is how focused she is on her appearance. Even the pics with babies and cats are staged to make herself look amazing. That's a big turn off to me. Sorry to be judgy, but I would wonder if she is high drama/maintenance. I like simple, spontaneous people and usually that's what comes across in their social media posts. Friends, family, travel, fun, being goofy, etc.

Nothing high maintenance about her. Her poses are no different from that of anyone her age. She's extremely beautiful though, and I can see how that would intimidate some women on here.