racy photos of au pair on instagram
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Anonymous
| I would rematch over the stalker. We have a no tinder or internet date to pick up at our house. I do not care if they use the app, but if they had a public sleazy Instagram account and used tinder or something I would probably rematch if I were op. Just asking for freaks. |
Anonymous
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We really liked an ap but found her Instagram account and passed her over. She still matched and we are still glad she is not our AP.
To the OP (maybe this is your AP?) maybe you need to screen better...we found this candidates account in 5 minutes when we were interviewing. She was an Austrian body builder. I am sure I could find her again on Instagram. |
Anonymous
| OP here — we’re rematchjng |
Anonymous
Good luck! I would do the same thing. I know of a few APs in DC area with CCAP who will be in the rematch pool in next few weeks. |
Anonymous
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What do you consider too much for Instagram?
We reviewed this candidate and thought it was fine. https://www.instagram.com/claudia.branchetti/?hl=en We passed on her due to experience but her Instagram would not have stopped us. Sure, she may be a little princess type but nothing too racy imo. |
Anonymous
| For us, this is the kind of thing that stretches us and makes us better parents/host parents. If this were our son or daughter, what would we do? We wouldn't ship them off to another family, but we would have a talk about internet safety, not giving our address out to your tinder person (which has happened), etc. If it's her personal life and it's not affecting her work, they you could let it go. If there are pictures of your kids, or her selfie habit is happening during work hours, or she's wearing underwear to the dinner table, then you could say something. |
Anonymous
I don’t consider her photos racy. She’s stunning, but her pics are tasteful. |
Anonymous
Why don’t you post the Instagram so we can give you some feedback? You’re asking us to accept your definition of racy, which others may see differently. See the discussion above this post. |
Anonymous
| Your kids will be at that age too OP. Leave your aupaur lone, live life. Don't judge people or people will judge badly your kids someday. |
Anonymous
Eh don't post her private info. Would you like nannies posting private info from thier employees? No, right. |
Anonymous
| How do you find someone on Instagram ? I’m not instagram savvy. i know our AP has an Instagram account other than what is associated with her FB (the one I can see/ follow) but it only has 2 pictures on it ) but I know she has another account because she said she “uses” it. |
Anonymous
You need to do a little research. Normally people have multiple email accounts, so you can search using the ones you do not email her on. Also they will tend to use the same nickname for multiple platforms. Another way is to find their friends or followers from other social media accounts and then Find the friends on Instagram and get to your ap that way. Most Aps now have learned to set their account to private. Which personally I hope for. Sure they could have sleazy pics up but at least the entire world cannot see them. |
Anonymous
Pics are fine, that would not concern me. She is stunning and the photos are tasteful. What I find a big turn off is how focused she is on her appearance. Even the pics with babies and cats are staged to make herself look amazing. That's a big turn off to me. Sorry to be judgy, but I would wonder if she is high drama/maintenance. I like simple, spontaneous people and usually that's what comes across in their social media posts. Friends, family, travel, fun, being goofy, etc. |
Anonymous
I absolutely agree with you. Everything is so posed/staged. Who wants THAT in an AP? I want someone real. She comes across as very contrived. I definitely would not want that around as a role model for my DD who is 15. |
Anonymous
| Her entire monthly allowance must be going to maintain the lip injections. |