Host dad hit on AP and still allowed to host?

[Anonymous]

You guys are right. AP probably was just being dramatic. Boys will be boys. She should feel flattered that he found her attractive and wanted to touch her.

[Anonymous]

Gross

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If this really happened, and the LCC saw text message corroborating AP's accusations, then the agency would have removed the HF asap.

Why?

[Anonymous]

I don't think the agencies would really care that much.

[Anonymous]

This is ridiculous. That family should be removed from the program.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You guys are right. AP probably was just being dramatic. Boys will be boys. She should feel flattered that he found her attractive and wanted to touch her.

Should have forwarded the texts to the Host Mom too.

[Anonymous]

Women can perpetuate the harms of sexual assault. this whole thread is evidence of that.

[Anonymous]

If it is true, YES the family should be removed from the program.

BUT the poster has no proof. She has hearsay of hearsay. She needs to see these texts herself. Or this may be a troll post.
If it were my AP or her friend, I would demand to see the texts and then fight like he** for the AP and inform the Dbag's wife and the family kicked out.

[Anonymous]

my hunch is that many on this thread would not demand to see proof if there were accusations of an AP hitting on their spouse. just sayin'

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it is true, YES the family should be removed from the program.

BUT the poster has no proof. She has hearsay of hearsay. She needs to see these texts herself. Or this may be a troll post.
If it were my AP or her friend, I would demand to see the texts and then fight like he** for the AP and inform the Dbag's wife and the family kicked out.

I was in this situation. But it wasn’t my LCC. I saw the screenshots. What does “fight like hell” mean? What do you even do next?

[Anonymous]

OP here again. If you don’t believe the story I’m not going to gather more evidence to convince you. I believe the story and am appalled at the agency for not ditching the family. That is all...

[Anonymous]

Just remember this happens all the time. We have know of 2 instances where the Au pair friends of our au pairs were regularly sleeping with the au pairs. One time was just the dad and the other time was both the parents.

People have sex - it’s normal.

The dad should have made his intentions known and not touched the Au pair until he knew she wanted him to. But sex between dads and Au pairs isn’t a crime!

[Anonymous]

^^
troll

[Anonymous]

Ew. What 22 year old wants to screw a 45 year old dad?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ew. What 22 year old wants to screw a 45 year old dad?

Well DH and I were 29 when we got our first au pair, who was 24, so. Not always a big age gap.